by nicegirl_200100 on January 30th, 2011

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what would you think if your bf tells you that you look like a 12 yrs old with your bikini?

he said that and laughed and said "u should have wear another color , why did u choose green and sky blue ,really you seem like a young girl", then i told him i fell offended and he said i was a joke ...but then i was sad all day for his comment ...and finally he aplologysed :(

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  • by megcham on January 30th, 2011

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    Your boyfriend is rude, you look young for your age, but to laugh at you and call you a girl was wrong. You are going to have to learn not to depend on him for any self esteem. He apologized, so I would forget it. If he brings it up again, I would forget him.

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  • by Spicy Hot on January 30th, 2011

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    On the 15th you asked how to get a boyfriend?????

    On the 25th you asked, i just broke up with my bf because he doesnt have any time to see me but i miss him , how to forget him ?


    Now on the 30th you ask this. * shakes head*




    You need to get your stories straight.

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  • by celticmoonlight on January 30th, 2011

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    grow thicker skin for god's sake! you dont have to be in a mood all day over a goddamn bikini!!! god forbid you ever have any real problems!

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  • by gtravels loves her life penguin on January 30th, 2011

    gtravels loves her life penguin

    When you're as old as I am, you'll be thrilled to be told you look like a young girl. Try not to be so sensitive. Life will be a lot easier.

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  • by Mister_Bromyde on January 30th, 2011

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    Wait. Were the colors the problem or your, uh, uhm you lack of uh, filling out the bikini?

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  • by SassyPink on January 30th, 2011

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    I'd get mad & kick his ass - No kiss or "relations for 30 days"

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  • by JPsgirl on January 30th, 2011

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    I'd marry him.

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  • by Simply Pengu on January 30th, 2011

    Simply Pengu

    i'm glad you found out at 12 y.o. that guys are insensitive. it's going to happen again, and again, and again.

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  • by Anonymous on January 30th, 2011

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    i would think he was an asshole

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  • by Literally on January 30th, 2011

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    Be thrilled? I'm only 26 and it already feels like my life is passing me by. You're only young once so live it up.

    But that isn't the answer you are looking for. All I can tell you is that people relate with someone they have something in common with. Music, television, food, whatever, just find that common ground.

    Just remember, tomorrow is always sooner than you think.

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  • by Anonymous on August 14th, 2011

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    Next time your bf makes a rude comment about your youthful attire, just say, "Thanks, I'm proud to look young for my age." If he continues to belittle you, don't change your clothes; change your boyfriend. Making unsolicited negative comments about a girlfriend's clothing choices is usually the sign of a controlling boyfriend.

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  • by rebellious angel on August 14th, 2011

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    He might've not meant that you're flat or something. He could've just meant that the style and coloring of the bikini was childish but he probably found it cute :) Just let it go, at least this first time.

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  • by RosieGHM Jetpacker on March 15th, 2011

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    "Young girl"? What a lovely compliment that would be for me. There is absolutely nothing I would find offensive about being called a young girl. I'm an old lady you see so those are words I won't be hearing from anyone anytime soon. Words have different meanings to different people and you see how I would take them versus how you took them. Different strokes for different folks. Happy Tuesday nicegirl! :)

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  • by Christine on March 15th, 2011

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    That he was being honest. Wait! Do twelve year olds ever have any gray hair? Maybe he's being nice :)

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  • by Sarge on January 30th, 2011

    Sarge

    If you're 20 and look like you're 12, be happy that you even have a boyfriend.

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  • by AnonymousGirl on March 5th, 2011

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    I might be offended. I might also wonder why he was my boyfriend. I'd probably translate the insult to mean "Wow, you really look flat. I'm ashamed of being seen with you."

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