Well first off, what did you do that was 'stupid'? I don't know your boyfriend but judging from what you've stated in your question, it sounds like he treats you like dirt. You may very well be better off without him. If you're really taking the comments to heart, you should ask yourself 'What am I doing that embarasses him at school'? I'm assuming you're in high school, which is nothing but a big popularity contest. Trust me, I've been there. If your boyfriend is being so blatantly open with you about things like that, you should re-evaluate your relationship. You don't need someone in your life whose going to tell you that you embarass him, or you do stupid things...its demoralizing. My ex-girlfriend was like that...on the flipside of the coin, sometimes guys like me will be in a relationship with a girl that's a little high on herself or looking for someone to walk all over. Unless you have much better times with your boyfriend, and this is just a few isolated incidents, then it sounds like you're in a similar situation. Basically, if he's telling you things like this and making you feel bad, then you don't need him around. There's plenty of other guys out there for you, and if he's 'embarassed' by you then let him be alone. The last thing you need to do is worry yourself over what your boyfriend says if he's treating you like that.

Give him time. Maybe he was really hurt.

It would be helpful to know what it was that you had done to upset him in the first place. However, looking at the way that he reacted over it, you either hurt him really bad or he has other issues that he is taking out on you. That is usually the main reason a guy will overreact to stressful situations in the relationship. In any case, it would not be wise to jump the gun and say dump him, I don't need him. It is never a good idea to burn bridges too quickly. The simplest solution, which most people feel is the hardest is talk to him about all of it. Be completely candid with him and tell him you don't understand. He should be receptive to you and try to help you better understand where he is coming from. If he isn't receptive, it shows that he isn't willing to put the time into the relationship that you deserve and that would be an indicator for you to seriously consider ending it. Open communication is always the way to end an argument. The longer you let it go on, without finding a solution, the more likely it is to blow up in your face later on the relationship.

Well I was in a similar situation recently where my boyfriend got upset because he was coming over at four but didnt call me to let me know he was still coming...two days before this he told me he was coming over also but neglected to call and did not show up, so naturally I thought he wasn't going to come this time, well he ended up coming and got really upset because I was two hours late so he said it was a "stupid this to do"...Sometimes when girls do things like this or other things guys don't understand why we do it, like my boyfriend outwardly said, I don't get you sometimes, well the moral is, if you did something stupid, you need to ask him what you did that was wrong, and if it turns out to be nothing at all you should ask him if anything was bothering him, and if still no reconsider the relationship

Talk to him to get to the heart of what is bothering him. Ask for specific reasons why he's embarassed by you. If that doesn't work, tell him you'll save him the trouble of dumping you, and get rid of him. He's not mature enough to be in a relationship. I know, easier said than done, but it sounds like he's behaving like a 3 year old. If he doesn't know how to forgive, things will only get worse.

It sounds like you need to move on. He obviously is ready to. He's insulting you and he even told his friends he wanted to dump you. My suggestion is to find another fish in the sea.

what did you do if it is that bad mabey it is time to end itbut i am just a blonde don't listen to me

You did what you could do you apologized and instead of being a big boy and accepting it and moving on he's being a jerk. Sit him down and tell him enough is enough and if he keeps up dump him. He sounds like someone who's not only immature, but could become emotinally abusive in a long term relationship and you don't need that kind of bull.

from the embarrassing him at school thing alone I'd say this guy's pretty lame and you'd probably be best off just moving on.

Pack up your emotional baggage and move on. You sound far to young to be worried about a single boy... there's tons of fish in the sea, and it would do him good to learn EARLY that he should talk to girlfriend about her, and not his "friends"

tell him to grow up & to kiss(now point at ya butt) this good bye!!!!

IF HES READY TO DUMP YOU OVER SOMETHING "STUPID" THAN ITS TIME TO LET HIM GO. BUT BEFORE YOU DO TALK TO HIM HE COULD BE HAVING PROBLEMS AT HOME OR WITH SCHOOL OR HIS FRIENDS YOUNG BOYS DONT KNOW HOW TO SHARE THERE FEELINGS HE COULD BE DISPLACEING HIS ANGER OR CONFUSION ON THE ONLY PERSON HE KNOWS WILL STILL BE THERE WHEN EVERYTHING IS SAID DONE. BOYS TRY TO SHOW ONLY ONE EMOTION AND THATS ANGER/RAGE BUT TEH REASON FOR THAT CAN BE EASILY ANSWERED.COMUNICATION IS KEY IN ANY RELATIONSHIP SO TALK TO HIM IF JUST WANTS TO BREAK UP THEN LET HIM GO.

Hey you are still in school and kids do stupid things.... It seems he cares about what his friends thinks more than he cares for you. He is a jerk..... Get a new man and show him up girl!!!!!!!

I need more information, what did you do that was "stupid?"

Just say good bye, if you guys cant make it through lil things...Its a long road after that and it gets harder..

sounds like whatever you did was the icing on the cake. he's probably going to blow everything out of proprotion because he's looking for an excuse to dump you. you can wait for him to find the right excuse to justify that or you can just ditch him now and save yourself the heartache.

It really depends on what you did that was "stupid". If you misspronounced a word then he is a douche. If you cheated on him then you need to go ahead and end it if he is not able to out of respect for him.

dump him honey, and tell everyone he wanted to use your make up.he sounds like a 'control' freak

well first of all he should've sat down with and talk to you calm and resolve youre problems but it is very harsh that he told you that you embarass him but give him his space and let him think dont push him oor don't be all over his butt and maybe he will come back to you.

" if he,s under 8 years old forgive him, over 8 dump him !