I have been dating my divorced boyfriend for 5 months. He said I'd meet his mother and father and his 2 kids after 6 months but now wants to wait a year. Should I be concerned?
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loveleeone
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Six months seems like a long time do date someone without introducing them to your family, but it depends on how he feels about you and what kind of relationship you have. If he is seriously thinking about a long-term committment, I don't think he would have put the introduction off another six months. Is there anything that might be making him have doubts about your long-term compatibility or how his family might see you. Are the two of you of different religions, races, of vastly different ages? Do you seem to get along most of the time? One more thing I would ask, have you been to his place? The reason I ask that is, I want to know if you are absolutely sure he's divorced. If he says doesn't want you to go to his place because he's "not ready to introduce you to the kids" there might be another reason...
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He proably is a concerned parent who loves and cares for his kids. His kids may be having a hard time accepting that there parents are over and you are this new lady. First sit down with him tell him your a little concerned and your reasons for it. In your case I wouldnt be concerened just think yourself in his condition.
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Hes probably wants to see if its going to last if u had a kid you wouldnt want them to get used to someone ( like a gf or bf ) then when it ends the kids wondering where they are and stuff and asking loads of questions lol duno why he wouldnt introduce u to his parents tho... would understand the kids tho =]
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:| just saw the date one this :D lol
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I almost have the same with you. In the beginning relationship, he kept saying that, " he can wait to have me and his kids spend time together someday, ..." but now, we are almost 7 to 8 month relationship, he doesn't mention that anymore, we talked about once and he said "why we have to rush to kids life ?" well it's make sense but just so obivious... you know, maybe he tried to make me feel good in the first of relationship , That's what I think, "Man sometimes tend to promise something at first but they are sure about that "
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