I am a virgin and everytime I've tried to have sex, it hurts way too bad. What can I do to make it better?

Maybe you should try fingering yourself, starting with one finger then two and so on. Then your vagina will stretch and it wont hurt so much. But it will always hurt a little (depending on the guys penis) You just have to try and embrace it lol

My questions to you are , How old are you? Are you useing protection? Maybe you need to be useing some type of lubrication. My favorite one to use is K-Y Brand Warming Jelly. Another factor could be that your boyfriends penis is a little bit to large for you. Also there needs to be fore play before penetration. You need to be very relaxed! The more relaxed and comfortable you are the better it will feel. I looked up a site for you to read, and hopefully this will help a little ..... http://education.vsnl.com/marriage/adviceforgirls.html

Good Luck and Have Fun!

Try fingering yourself, or have your boyfriend finger you before sex. You will become loser and more lubricated and it won't hurt so bad. Have your boyfriend take it slower, tell him to slid his penis in and out of your vagina gentely, not thrusts.

Try fingering yourself, or have your boyfriend finger you before sex. You will become loser and more lubricated and it won't hurt so bad. Have your boyfriend take it slower, tell him to slid his penis in and out of your vagina gentely, not thrusts.

Some women have an unusually thick or tough hymen that may need to be surgically removed.

If the above techniques do not help, maybe you should see your gynocologist.