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Elleonora
ANSWERS: 22
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much of what?
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but what? ??
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Yes if you say it to often it can start to lose its meaning.
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totaly! my last girlfriend was nuts! on the first day we were going out, she called me on the phone, and told me she loved me. at least that's what i thought she said. she mumbled a lot. so just joking i said it back, and she went on this hole thing of "Woah! were did that come from." then she had one of those 'cutsie' laughs and said "oh, i love you too." then she started saying it more and more, even though i didn't say it (but eventualy, i did start to really love her). then things got weird, and she started calling me at 4 in the @*#%ing morning. i'd answer the phone, and she'd say "Hey...WHAT'CHA THINKIN' ABOUT?" it didn't last too long after that.
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Yes! Especially when it is motivated by excessive alcohol.
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when my mother and mother in law have been drinking that is all you hear.
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If you really feel it, then it's generally okay to say it as much as you want to. If you sense the other person is bothered by the frequency, then talk about it.
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that depends on the couple, their relationship, and how its said. for some people they can never hear it enough. but just saying it casually all the time would seem to lose its effect.
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Yes. It's can even annoy someone if they are not in the mood to hear it like during an argument.
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Luthor Vandross sang Never Too Much so..........
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Hey elleonora, I just read your comment and I think what happen was because you said you thought it lost it's meaning he thought you were trying to tell him (in an indirect way) that you really didn't love him that much anymore. You may want to clarify this with him
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You should say it when you mean it, no more and no less. Of course there's also a matter of timing, because some moments just aren't right for it, and saying it too much can rob it of signifigance. It might help to breath some new meaning into the words if you ocassionally mixed in different ways of saying the same basic thing, phrasing has more power than one might think.
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well, apparently, yea you can when you say it too much and when you dont really mean it...i think...
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Yes you can say it to too many people in a casual manner. To your partner, I think you should say it every day, it could be the last time, none of us ever know.
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it all depends if you realy mean it all the times you say it
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honestly, it depends on the type of relationship you have, in my case, weve said it on and off for the past 3 years, and now that we are living together, i think that the flames are dyin....but thats just me, honestly i think i love you is a very strong phrase so use it wisley and just dont overuse it...it tends to drive the other person away if they arent used to it....
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I know a girl at work who says it 25 times a shift, and it's so old I don't even smile anymore.
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from my own experiences it does loose meaning.
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YES.........It loses value when used too much with a romantic partner. However, you should say it all the time with your kids.
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Yes you can say you love a person too much but that can be a different thing to each person. It can be a problem if you become obsessive and smothering but if you love a person a great deal and trust them too, which is in my opinion a very important part of loving. Then you are willing to give them freedom as well as love.
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I really think that depends on who your saying it too. If its your significant other I see nothing wrong with it.
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I love you. Hey, I love you. By the way, did I tell you I love you? How about now? I love you! Guess what? I love you! I love you here, and I love you here, and I love you here, and I love you there... The point? Yes, you CAN say I love you, too much. Make sure it's SAID, but don't over say it. Then it feels like it loses it's meaning.
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