After being around him for a week, I tell him that I want something that I can hold onto with him and more than just sex.Is he going to run?

I'm having the same issue with this guy that i'm seeing and i'm just as worried. We havent had sex yet, but we've been seeing eachother for about two months and it started and still is very physical. He keeps pressuring me into having sex with him, and whenever i say that we're going too fast or that i'm not comfortable having sex with him yet he calls me names and makes me feel bad. Dont let a guy do that to you, i did and continue to do so because i have true feelings for him. Its scary because he really controls me when we're together, and thats not very often. Its also scary because he says he loves hanging out with me but we only see eachother on the weekends, when we drink together and have casual makeout sessions haha. AAAND he still hasnt asked me out officially. Its all so confusing, but honestly if he really likes you and wants to be with you he wont question your feelings, he'll give you your space and give you time to be ready. If he cant or doesnt want to, then he really isnt worth it.
Best of luck :)

...faster than OPRAH--thru a bucket of chicken!!!

If you don't want casual sex, he should respect that and you. You shouldn't disrespect yourself, i.e. continue something you don't feel right about, just to keep him. Is he going to run? Don't know. That depends upon what he wanted. If he was just after the sex and does run, you are fortunate to find out now.

I mean, we were moving just a little faster than I had expected. I wanted to take things slow and get to know each other and eventually possibly be together. But then we had sex. And I backed off just a little bit and told him that I wanted to slow it down a little. I am not into casual sex. And I wanted to make sure he knew that. So I told him that I wanted something that I could hold onto with him and that I was not looking for casual sex...now I'm afraid he may just run.