So im 16 and ive been going out with this black kidd for like 3 months. When we first started to go out my step-dad went through my messages and saw that i was talkin to him and we were like sayin that we liked eachother and stuff like that in the messages. Well when I saw my stepdad he flipped out on me and started yelling like a physco and saying stuff like im worth nothing, im white trash, he called me stuff like a bitch and whore, he was like I LOVEd you, he was like throwing me around nd hitting me. He did SO much more. Anyways my mom has called me a "nigger lover" before and is always like no dating black boys and just always brings it up and wont leave me alone. AND my grandma is a hole notherr story she is really really against it. my aunt and cousins dont care about that at all. My grandmas always like "Your cousins arent gonna like you and they dont want you to go out with a black boy". And when I talk to them they say she's lying and that they dont really care. Im not racist AT all i think that as long as the person is a good person then thats all that matters. I just dont know what to do because they always bother me about it and it annoys me so much and they just dont understand what im saying. my stepdad doesnt really talk to me or do anything with me like he use to and hes mean to me all the time.