Who here deals with or likes change? Who doesn't? Can you understand why you do or don't?
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munchkin_kids_downunder
ANSWERS: 2
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I don't particularly like change. It stems back from lots of change in my childhood, being fostered, adopted etc. But I try to fight this feeling, its hard for me, but change can be beneficial and it's not good to live your life in a 'victim' role.
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It depends. My entire life is built on polar opposites and I have an 'all or nothing' approach to life. This basically means that I'm unable to chose between several objects, so I either take them all hastily, or I reason with myself and take nothing. It's the same with change - I either accept it completely and create change through snap decisions or I don't accept it, and hold back on making a decision because I cannot make the choice. If it's change that comes from the outside, I either compromise my own situation and calmly accept it, or I become angry because it's out of my control. And it doesn't matter that I am aware that being angry's not going to fix it, it still happens. The reasons behind those behaviours are simple - I'm an inconsistent person whose life is built of contradictions and opposites, and I can't help it, aside from becoming aware that it is happening. I honestly hope this isn't too confusing an answer.
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