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What men really want in bed is no mystery. Men are NOT hard to figure out or please. Due to the fact that there are virtually no women writing and producing porn films gives a strong clue. If you want to know exactly what men want in bed just watch the movie. Now I concede that there is a wide variety of kinds of movies to watch. Also the sexual orientation of the male effects what he may want in bed. Men are very vocal about their needs. They routinely shout them out in public. When was the last time you heard a guy shout out, "Suck my earlobes!" or try out, "Suck my toes!" That's because there are far more nerve endings in his penis screaming out for attention. The pop group, Exile released a song in the seventies called, "I want to kiss you all over". Believe it! Men want to kiss their partner from head to toe. The kissing impulse is not culturally bound. Mana, a Spanish rock group sings a tune called, "De pies a cabeza" , which translates, "From head to toe". Men do not want to do all the work. They appreciate variety and like to change positions often. This helps them last longer and enjoy their time with their partner more. They like it when their partner takes her turn on top or initiates a change of position. It is not all on him to "get her off". Men want to hear from their partner. The feedback does not need to be in verbal form. Moans are fine. Men are very goal oriented and do not consider sex a success unless both of you finish. Letting him know you are satisfied with the time together makes him feel fantastic. If he does not complete the cycle he feels frustrated and wonders why he wasted his time. A simultaneous orgasm is the equivalent of a touchdown.Oral Stimulation
Corporal Kissing
Shared Responsibility
Authentic Noise
Letting him know you are feeling it is good. Having you at the border of pleasure and pain. Nothing deflates his ego faster than suspecting that you are faking it.Finish Line
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by CaRbOnPrOdUcK is Baccuss on November 28th, 2008
A place to sleep.
by DukeG on March 24th, 2009
An Uninhibited woman.
by JayKayDee - Man U towards quintuple on March 19th, 2009
sleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep !!
by Rinky Dinky Do on November 28th, 2008
The remote control
by travel breeze on March 19th, 2009
Anal.
by greenstone on March 19th, 2009
a women who is adventurous and not afraid to try new things.
by AIR_INDIA_says_Wass_Up on March 19th, 2009
A women to lay in her arms after a busy day :)
by youngandinlove on March 19th, 2009
to have the love of their life next to them.
by Sosueme on March 19th, 2009
A woman would be nice
by xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx on December 11th, 2010
The beautiful woman in bed.
by Alias xsicajess on November 28th, 2008
guaranteed opportunity
by Anonymous on May 12th, 2010
I heard an expression years ago I've never forgotten - "a whore in the bedroom and the epitome of a lady at all other times" ! I think that's true - a man certainly wants a woman he can be proud of in public for social events but when it comes to what he wants in BED he wants that "whore" - or I prefer "slut" ! My wife sure fits that description - she's a very attractive woman who IS "the epitome of a lady" in public and social events - and she's as sexually passionate as any woman I've ever had the pleasure of being with in our bedroom ! I do wish she'd allow herself to EXPLORE her sexuality and EXPERIMENT with me - we have a fantasy of a threesome with another guy and although the FANTASY turns us BOTH on she won't allow herself to shed her inhibitions enough to EXPERIMENT with it ! I affectionately tell her I'd like for her to become my "Nympho Slut Wife" - what I consider to be a GOOD thing in the bedroom - and what I think MOST men want ! A woman who can shed her inhibitions and be receptive to exploring her sexuality to discover what sexual pleasures she's CAPABLE of enjoying WITHOUT any self imposed "boundaries" !
by Ricardo Demarko on March 24th, 2009
I can only say what I want in bed. I want to be with someone who is as interested in sex as I am and is not afraid to try new things. Someone who doesn’t mind being tied up and is comfortable with her own sexuality.
by Shavale is very happy on March 19th, 2009
Excedrin, the headache medicine. ;)
by --------- on March 19th, 2009
a woman who is not afraid to communicate and tells you what she is in a mood for.
by Squirrel Face on March 18th, 2009
Meh, every guy is different. Sometimes I want a girl to grab me and take control, other times I want her to let me take control, and sometimes, I want a little bit of both.
by eric on March 18th, 2009
A female friend of mine would say "Any warm hole will do."
by Drastic on November 28th, 2008
Some thick comfy blankets and a bunch of pillows.
by rebellious angel on July 12th, 2011
to be sucked dry?
by CaptainPlanet93 on May 31st, 2011
A woman who is a interested, willing, active, generally submissive, loving partner.
by I'm Just Along For The Ride on April 29th, 2011
well, this man(me)wants one good woman who's a lady in public, a chef in the kitchen and a wildcat wench in the bedroom...not too complicated..
by GibsonGuy on January 22nd, 2011
Kisses, cuddles, hugs, intimacy, comfort, sex if she wants it. Sleep, awaking together.
by easyrider on November 21st, 2010
popcorn and coke.........
by Gemini On The Highway To Hell on October 9th, 2010
we really just want our partner to have a man's sex drive mind set
when having sex...
basically just fuck our brains out...turn into an sex crazed animal & enjoy herself.....
we just want some one who really wants to go crazy on each other...when it comes to
sex....
by stillcurious on February 4th, 2010
A woman I'm familiar and comfortable with. For her to enjoy herself.
by Gossamer on September 30th, 2009
men want a lady in the streets but freak in between the sheets....+3
by jaykole on September 30th, 2009
To be desired. Men want to feel like the woman with them is crazy about them. They want to feel like the woman wants to have sex with them, specifically (not just sex with any available penis), more than anything else in the world. They want to get the message that the woman has been craving this moment with them for almost her entire life, and whether she embraces it by pouncing on him like a wild animal, or holds him tightly to her while begging him not to stop, or pleasures him in other ways, the main thing he wants from her is to feel that she is simply delighted to be there with him.
by ZiggyStardust on March 24th, 2009
Sex, Sleep then breakfast in the morning please
by Mosexy on March 19th, 2009
Personally, I like a spicy Italian sub. If your thinking of a sandwich, keep guessing.
by anonymous on March 18th, 2009
more...
by Bigessfour wears a Army COAT on November 27th, 2008
The love, companionship and intimacy that a woman provides.
by rebellious angel on May 2nd, 2011
blowjobs, swallowing, moaning, and overall spontaneity
by Have A Nice Day on April 29th, 2011
Women, or in some cases other men.
by igulp on April 29th, 2011
hot sex, cuddling and spooning afterwards and to hear i love love you in the morning.
want it with the girl i love, not a stranger or pick-up.
by LarryH54 on April 29th, 2011
An equal partner.
by davis5115 on January 13th, 2011
I like rough sex and for my girl to suck and swallow at the end! As long as I get sucked and swallowed at the end, I'm usually pretty good lol.
by I'm Just Along For The Ride on December 11th, 2010
an enthusiastic gorgeous lady who turns into the lustiest wench in bed!
by Sodahead on March 24th, 2009
A warm vagina that makes noise.
by attaMan on March 19th, 2009
It all depends what kind of relationship you have with the other person. If you are on a one night stand, then, you shouldn't be too tender and just appreciate the moment. If you are in a relationship with the person, I would say that you have to show him the love. Be tender cause it has to come from both men and women. Then, regarding what kind of sex we want to have, I would say that what makes me happy it to see that both of us are really enjoying ourselves. So, try different stuff to find out what he likes or simply ask him and do some variations between what each of you likes.
by Bjornst on March 19th, 2009
For the woman to find me attractive and to like what I'm doing, and help me learn what she likes, and to be totally into it (some moaning/screaming helps, if it's real).
by Sodahead on March 19th, 2009
Sheets and a pillow would be nice.
by Spicy Hot on March 19th, 2009
Naked Woman.
by Mz.Sweetie B. on March 19th, 2009
sex, sleep, and breakfast...but then again thats what women want too.
by Mystical Dim on March 19th, 2009
..their damn breakfast the morning after
by anddeb on March 19th, 2009
Sex and rest
by Rahbar on March 19th, 2009
Peace of Mind!
by 1THING on March 18th, 2009
Nookie
by --paw43--is back for now on November 28th, 2008
Two pillows a warm quilt and my ipod. I have simple needs : ))
by TheJoker on September 30th, 2009
Hmmm, I think most men would say, everything their other half's willing to do.... or let them do!
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Comments
So many cliche. No wonder women think we're idiots! Perhaps half of this answer is reasonable but the other half reads like a doctoral disertation by a woman who thinks she knows what men want, based on the three guys she picked up in a bar. Sorry.
by GibsonGuy on January 22nd, 2011
What we can't have!
by anonmanusly on January 29th, 2011
I don't think the finish line part applies to men only. Of course sex is only a success if you both finish! DUH!
by rebellious angel on March 24th, 2011
Stephen, your article was well though out and written. Any woman reading it can gain valuable insight into the question that so many women seem to have. Good job
by Normal1 on December 22nd, 2011