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by urk on December 10th, 2009
That's a tough one. I'm very similar. I tried dating in between as well, but I couldn't wrap my head around a casual relationship, especially after having been so accustomed to being with one person for so many years.
This may sound weird, but I don't think I can be casual sexually. I have to know that there's love, trust, and a commitment of exclusivity before I can really get into it.
Maybe that's why I tended to latch on quickly. If there was love, trust, and a commitment, the sex would follow, and in the context that I prefer.
I'm not suggesting that you might feel that way, but I do think that explains some of my own past relationship snafus.
by Talamasca on December 10th, 2009
Remind yourself to take it slow.
It is OK to not be married in spite of pressures society puts on you.
by - MojoThunder - on December 10th, 2009
you are describing a SYMPTOM and not the root cause ... you need to ask yourself "WHY do i have to be in a serious relationship?" first ... the fact that you express that "drama" is usually a part of the process indicates that there is much more underneath the surface
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You're reading Been married 2x total of 25 yrs -NEVER dated much inbetween. I'm pretty much a "relationship" one man woman. but now am interested in dating, however I get too emotional and serious when a guy epress interest in me, how can I be more carefree w/o drama?
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