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  • NO! I've been there, right where you are and thought the same thoughts. BIG MISTAKE. Let some more time go by. That kind of jerk will get it back in spades. And when he does .... SWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET.
  • Yeah, been there, done that. May they ALL crash and burn. I have heard that revenge is a dish best served cold. However, I'd hope that you wouldn't waste your time. Living well really is the best revenge, and if you take action now there could be more than one negative outcome. You could, at the worst, end up in jail. you could end up looking foolish in front of him and whomever he is with at the moment. Remember, if he's with the person he cheated on you with, it won't be long before he cheats on her. She can taste that poison and choke on it without any prompting from you. That way, your hands are clean. I'd advise a lack of recognition if you do happen to run into him. If you don't even remember him, it will bother him more than if yo make a scene. He meant THAT little to you. Good luck.
  • Move on. You did the right thing. Confucius gave some good advice: "Before starting out on the road to revenge - dig 2 graves."
  • tough get over it revenge gets u nowere but jail
  • Losing you and having to be him is his punishment.
  • ...ring him up, tell him you're HIV positive..lol...(sorry sick sense of humor...most of the other posts are bang right, just give it time and f**k him off...y'll win in the end...).....:O)
  • I'm going to say the opposite of what EVERY other poster has said so far. I'll give you some pranks that are anonymous and can be done on anyone, even if they aren't an ex. There's always the classic brown bag prank...get some dog turd, put it in a brown bag, place the bag on his doorstep, light it on fire and ring the doorbell. Then run to a hidden area, preferably where you can still see the door, and watch as he panics to put out the fire. MOST of the time they'll stomp on it, and when he does, he'll have a nice pleasant surprise covering his foot. Another one is to get their big garbage cans that they put out on the curb for the garbage truck to come pick up, get one of those garbage cans and fill it with water using a hose. Then lean it against their door, ring the doorbell and run. When he answers the door, the garbage can will fall and water will go everywhere. Of course, just moving on is great revenge too. But it's really up to you.
  • my ex wife had her first cyberaffair a month before our 6 year anaversary, within 6 months she ran away with #3. I never wanted revenge however I would appreciate reparations of everything I sacrificed over the 6 years... knowing I will never get that I am satisfied with severance. I stopped wanting her back in 6 weeks I worked my ass off could not get my education, and even gave up a federal job for her. we were living with her family because of how much she cost me and did not work. and you think you need revenge? let it go... the key to happiness is to flow with what life gives you. move on. harming him does not benefit you and obsessing about it wastes more of your life than the 4 years he already wasted.
  • The best revenge is living a good life.

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