probably can't. it's kinda late for that.

By reassuring her and showing her committment and never cheating again, but most likely you will never regain what you've lost.

Assuming they did something major to lose my trust, not just a little thing, then they can't. I can get over the pain and even be sociable with the individual eventually, but they would not regain my trust. Once that is lost it does not return.

im not going to lie here so they can't. once they've lost it, they've lost it.

They don't. Everybody but my mom and dad are on my shit list.

I dont think its possible to ever completely trust someone who has hurt you.

Time! I believe time resolves all matter if a person is willing to forgive and start over. Communication is key---let them show you they can be trust again. If you care let them---if it is not worth it you will know---because they will not try or they will repeat the patterns. Good luck!

It's really hard to just let someone regain your trust once they've hurt you, especially if it's someone who was close to you, like a best friend or bf/gf. You just have to try to forgive them and give them another chance, but you can't control how you feel. You'll probably be suspicious every once in a while or look over your shoulder, but if you think he or she deserves it, you just need to try and put it behind you and give the person time to prove themself.

I never rely on someone else's actions in order to regain their trust.This could take forever if I had to wait.First they might not know they have hurt you,they are not psychic.If you tell them and they apologize or explain their actions what else can they do.I would contemplate my own actions and realize that I have hurt others as well and that we are all not perfect in our actions.It is our bruised ego that is complaining.I would just simply trust again.

If she's an idiot it might not take very long. If she was worth having in the first place you'll never fully regain her trust. Smooth move.

not to be an asshole but you probely never fully will!!!! b/c that showed her you had no commitment and you can't say no, and if you really cared you wouldn't allow yourself to even get in that predicament all i can say is if shes willin move on and do your best don't expect it to be the same it probely never will be!!! she'll all bring it up... and when she does you have to be the one to suck it up a secure her feelings. -marina ,17

That's gonna be a pretty difficult, im not sure if you even can

give it time.. ur never gonna FULLY regain her trust but what youre looking for will be there in time

time, commitment, and be deserving of her trust

u cant!

Imagin you are in that situation. If your girlfriend cheats on you, what makes you sure that you can trust her again? I don't really know but you might be able to think about it.

dude you might never get her trust back i no i would never trust a cheater again

your relationship has just recieved near fatal 3rd degree burns. IF is survives, it will remain scared for life. If I or my wife were to cheat I would end the relationship so we both could start fresh elsewhere. some people make it work but I believe they would be better off with a clean slate.

Cut off your ear and send it to her

Once lost means gone forever.. so the best way is to start afresh with total conviction and commitment All the best.

Castration?

It's possible, of you really want to. And it's gonna take time. You should be totally open and honest about everyting. If she wants to read the text messages on your cellphone - let her, even though it's annoying, spend a whole lot of time with her, never lie about anything, make a point of doing what you say and saying what you do. Let her know where you are and with whom. For someone thats been cheated on, the simplest, smallest incident may seem like something cheat-like. It really takes a huge effort and a lot of time. You'll have to work very hard. So, if you really want to, you can regain her trust

you can't you got bored of her

That's tough. You may not get her trust back. She'll always have a suspicious mind about you even when it seems she doesn't. If I discovered my lady cheated on me, I'd dump her flat. For me personally, it's an unforgiveable thing to do. Give her space. If she doesn't want to see you right now just let it be. If she decides you should just see other people, don't try to stop it. However, all us humans are different. If she's a forgiving personality, she may get over it in time. A lot of time. It could take years. The question you have to ask yourself is if you want this girl for a seriously long time. If you don't think you do. Then just let her go and don't jump right into a new relationship. Relationships instigated while on the rebound tend not to last.

regaining trust is a hard thing to do, but there's also a reason as to why you cheated. Before you really go down that path you need to do a little reflecting on the situation. First, you need to think about why you cheated on her. Were you not getting enough attention, were you feeling a little homesick from the single life, or can you really not control you hormones. Im not judging you by any means at all. I just want you to know before you go down this path of gaining the trust its not so easy. If she really cares for you, she'll want to try and make it work, but at the same time she'll be thinking, omg what is he doing, where is he at, i wonder how i can get into his phone. It's natural to do things like this when you've been hurt by someone you truley care about. So if you can tell yourself absolutley 100% that you will never, under any circumstance hurt this girl again then go for it. Some people deserve second chance and its blessing to get them, just dont take advantage of that. To answer your question, nothing will heal trust better then time. Time is the cure for alot of things, just treat her like she's appreciated because she's feeling a bit insecure right now, just a guess. Good luck to you!!

Stop talking to the person you cheated with. Oh, and don't put yourself in situations where you are likely to be tempted to cheat.

You can't. Live with it!

I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me about a year ago. All he did was have cybersex. But you know...this is the absolute worst feeling that ive ever felt in my life. That all this pain im going through NOW, he could have saved me with ONE WORD to her. "No". But I was no where in his mind. Im scared that he met up with her and actually did have sex with her. How can i trust him? He lied to me. I love him so much and i will give him one last chance. If he EVER so much as LOOKED at another girl my heart could not take it anymore. I am so sick. Im so tired. Im so hurt and i only hope that you would never do that again. I feel that if you TRUELY love some one, it would have never happened in the first place. I am so depressed because i thought that he really loved me so much and so deeply and then he did that. I just ask myself "how?" it wasnt possible but it happened. The real problem is trying to accept that it will never happen again. So many people have said "once a cheater always a cheater" but i just cant believe them. Not him. But then again i never thought he'd do that to me in the first place. Im sure you're girlfriend feels just like i do. It will take a long time for things to get back to the way they were but i will never forget what he did to me. And if he doesnt love me so much more than he did, i dont see how it will even end up working. But i love him and as much as he hurts me, he still has me. He should thank god for that.

its sad to say but you may never. Thats the price you have to pay. It may seem like things are getting better but there will always be that thought at the back of her head.

by not doing it again and give her all of your attention. make sure she do the same in return.

well if she's anything like me you'll have to work super hard... be there when ever she needs you no matter what time of day or night, you cant lie to her about even the slightest thing because sh's not gonna trust you for a long time... if she's not like me give her some flowers and she'll be over it...

you probably won't. if you never get her back, than you should learn from this so it won't happen again.