Rank the importance in a significant other ONLY these: 1. nice/kind, 2. smart, 3. wise, 4. pretty face, 5. hot body, 5. rich, 6. "sexually experimental", 7. servile, 8. confident, 9. independent, 10. compatible faith (or lack of). Gender and comment pls.

nice/kind, wise, compatible faith, independent, confident, smart in that order. The others are not important to me.
62 year old male, conservative, religious.

10. Compatible faith
2. Smart
8. Confident
1. Nice/Kind
3. Wise
9. Independant
4. Pretty face
5. Hot body
6. Sexually experimental
5. Rich

This one is off my list entirely:
7. Servile

Wow, Profesor, this is a real challenging exercise, much more so than I thought it would be!
I had to change the order of my list a million times before finishing, and I still wasn't completely satisfied with the final product. You've really made me think, and I like that.

I'm married, and have been for over 2 decades, so this is all academic, ok? I'm male.

I found a lot of the choices to be so closely similar that I may have combined them into one item, but I remained true to the parameters you set down.

For Number 6, I would hope that I wouldn't know this about her from the beginning, and that it comes out in conversation much later after having met each other (I like the mystery of a woman), but prior to "the moment".

Servile is at the very top. If a girl is totally servile, then none of the others matter diddly squat! Though if she wants to be happy being servile to me, she had better be Sexually Experimental to the extreme (but YOU already know that, chexie :-)

Nice/kind- won't hurt you

smart- more topics to discuss

confident- people with low self esteem are too needy

independent- talks for itself

wise- you don't have to baby sit

hot body- keeps in good health

pretty face- good genes to pass down to next generation

compatible faith- less things to argue about during marriage and more likely you have other things in common

sexual experimental- On the bottom because I wouldn't want someone who would desire a 3 way or someone who may feel unsatified because hes into S/M

servile- wouldn't want that one on my list at all. It would negate some of the qualities above.

I'm female.

Wise
Nice/kind
Smart
Confident
Independent
I am female, and I left out the ones that are not important to me.

Wise
Smart
Independent
Nice/Kind
Confident
Pretty Face
Nice Body
Sexually Experimental
Rich
Compatible Faith

I am a male, and I answered this from the perspective of a long term relationship rather than a "fling." The one major thing that trumps all of these for me is a sense of humor. If she can't laugh, then she isn't a girl I would want to be friends with, much less date. I notice I am the only one who didn't put nice/kind first, but honestly I think people are almost too nice. You need to have the wisdom and intelligence to tell your partner if they are wrong, even if it isn't the nicest thing to do. +3

Nice/kind
Smart
Wise
Sexually experimental
Compatible faith (or in this case, lack of :P)
Independent
Pretty face
Hot body
Confident
Rich
Servile

I'm female, by the way.

nice/kind
wise
independent
compatible faith
confident
smart
pretty face
hot body
sexually experimental
servile

If the ones at the top of the list don't match, then the ones further down still being true, wouldn't be enough.

nice, kind
confident
smart
hot body
independent
compatible faith
pretty
sexually experimental
rich
servile

nice/kind
wise
sexually experimental
smart
independent
compatible no faith
rich
pretty face
servile
hot body