OMG my bf n i just started datin n we just found out hes being deployed! What do i do??? Stay w him leave him? were not the type or ppl that cheat or nethin but we just started datin ???? HELP PLEASE!

YEA but hes part of 2 troops and wasnt supposed to leave till next august n go to germany now its dec 11th and afganistan

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by southerngal on November 20th, 2009

yea but he wasnt supposed to be deployed till august and go to germany and get a house there n all where i could be with him im german speak german have been there and have a lot of family there.... now its dec 11th and after 3 months of training for over seas - afganistan

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by southerngal on November 20th, 2009

well its like this... we just met hit it off amazingly - we have everything! in common n want the same things... we do things the same.. think the same about stuff etc... we mayb a lil different but if it is its slightly... like my names is Erika and his is Eric LOL but yea u get my point.... from day one we stayed up and talked on the phone till 130 in the mornin... for a week we hung out everyday and were already dating... (I know that sounds nutts - we just feel soo right) that got a lil crazy so lately we've only seen eachother like once a week or twice... weve been datin 4 2weeks yes we've been intimate n of course i want to see him! lol its like when im with him im happy my heart pounds like crazy n nothin matters - just talked to him n he says he really really likes me n wants to try n make it work... but his mind is in a million places rite now so he cant like say oh were going to work out and all. 2morrow were meeting eachothers parents he leaves for training 3 weeks from 2day

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by southerngal on November 20th, 2009

Well, your in the very beginning stages, almost like having a crush. However, what he's going to do is the hardest long distance relationship ever. You have to decide to commit to him now, or not. To break up or cheat on him, while he's deployed, is the worst thing that coulc happen to him. You will have only sporadic communication with him, so that makes things tough. Then, he may come back differnet than you remember, especially if this is a combat deployment. If your strong enough, if the vibes are right, if your woman enough, go for it!

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by Kingpinn on November 20th, 2009

LOL AWWW thanks SOOO MUCH! If i could i'd give ya +1000 lol!

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by southerngal on November 20th, 2009

You're welcome. By the way, if that's your picture on your avatar, you're man's a lucky guy...

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by Kingpinn on November 20th, 2009

lol of course thats me :-) thank you...

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by southerngal on November 20th, 2009

i just got off the phone w him n he said he really really likes me and for sure he wants to try and make it work but his mind is in a thousand different places right now n so he cant say like ooo yea everything is going to be ok and were gona b 2gether

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by southerngal on November 20th, 2009

He's telling you the truth. If you want a recommendation, I would suggest that you tell him you will be here for him for the duration of his tour, and that the two of you can talk about where you want this relationship to go when he gets back and has had some time to reajust to being home again. It will be tough on you, but probably the best thing you could do for him. Having someone back home when you're in a war is just about the only thing that helps to keep some guys sane.

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by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on November 20th, 2009

hmm funny how u still call her ur gf when u just said that yall are single???

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by southerngal on November 20th, 2009

*DEPLOYD not employed! HAHAHAHAHA

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by southerngal on November 20th, 2009

i knew that <_<;;
OHHHH i see, i failed lol

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by The Crimson Magician on November 21st, 2009