ANSWERS: 5
  • Have you even thought about what is right for the potential child? If that wasn't your first thought in this discussion, then you are far, far, far from ready.
  • I have a feeling that the reason your mother dislikes him is not because of his race.... it's because he is 15 and trying to get you pregnant. Let me ask you this... how much do you think it will cost to have a baby, and then to look after it for the next 18 years? Figure that one out, and then ask yourself, how much money does my boyfriend make each year? What is my annual income? Will we both be happy spending ALL of our money on someone else, AND probably borrowing money from our parents to spend on the kid? Will we be happy having no time to ourselves? Are you, and he, ready to give up your friends, your time, and all of your money for this? You do realize that you will NOT be going out with your friends, and you will not be going to school, you'll be sitting at home looking after a screaming, shitting, vomiting bundle of joy, right? Your boyfriend is an IDIOT. An IDIOT. Get him to read this, and perhaps he will realize how STUPID and CHILDISH he actually is. You're also an idiot for even considering this, sorry.
  • -----------i stay away from him all the way unless you dont like your life the way it is now haveing a kids it dont get any better
  • If you both feel ready there is no need to hesitate.
  • Do you make enough money to support yourself and the child? If not, then don't. Don't put the burden on somebody else. That's not fair to them or to the child. Also, you should be done with school so you can take care of it. If you can't do something as basic as take care of it, then you are definitely not ready.

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