no im not like that but my grandma is she has like four cats and spends 97% of her time with them

Jazzy, I'm sorry that I don't have an answer to your question, but I am responding to you on a different concept: I simply love the way you write! I've just begun reading your entire profile (I started with the oldest question and I'm working my way to the newest), and I am thoroughly impressed with you. Your proper use of the English language is refreshing, and what you've done with the apostrophe in this question alone practically makes my mouth water. When someone does something well, they should be recognized. When someone does something as well as you have here with your writing, that recognition should be shouted from the rooftops. (Anyone reading this, please understand that Jazz-Ma-Tazz hasn't found the cure for cancer or discovered a resolution for world poverty; she merely writes well and follows the rules of punctuation, grammar, syntax, spelling, capitalization, spacing, and most importantly, proof-reading her work prior to posting it.) People who have seen me comment on poor or improper use of written English will be glad to know that I've finally found someone in whom I see positive examples, and maybe I won't be completely dismissed as a foddering old fuddy-duddy (however, it's not likely).

Well goodness! I might be! I had never thought of it this way and don't see myself as an escapist either.

No x 2.