I get really stressed out when it comes to girls, i'm pretty charming and have gotten girls into bed before, but then i lose it and can't get a hardon. does this make me gay? im 21 and a virgin
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No, that does not make you gay. Being sexually attracted to other men is what makes you gay. Is it possible that you're very stressed or nervous when you're in bed with a girl? Perhaps you're just putting too much pressure on yourself.
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No--Not gay. You seem to like women. Maybe you're putting 2 much pressure on yourself to perform. Do you respond during foreplay or does it continue to be noodle city? I once had a crush on this woman and it was a miracle or dream come true to get together and when it was time to perform----Noodle. I think it's psychological.
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Good for you that you're 21 and still have your virginity. I know you don't see it as a good thing, but it shows a girl you don't just sleep around ya know? Anyways back to your question, i think probably why you get stressed is, because we're so damn confusing haha. I'm sure you feel like you need to be a certain way in order to get that particular girl, but the truth is, at least for me, that being honest with who you are and walking with confidence is a turn on. And the fact that you think you're charming is a good thing, so use that! Charming all ties into being sexy, and flirtatious! When it comes to you in bed, i think you're just putting a lot of pressure on yourself, you need to be relaxed and enjoy the moment enough to be turned on.
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This does not make you gay. It's called "Performance Anxiety". Most men have had erection problems at some point due to worrying about performing well during sexual intercourse. If this happens often, the anticipation of sex can trigger nervous reactions that prevent erection, setting up a vicious cycle. Check out this link: http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/79_love_tip.html
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The only thing that makes you gay is an attraction to men. If you are attracted to men, and you are not turned on by females, you may be gay. You might be putting alot of unnecessary pressure on yourself and that's why you can't salute the flag. Maybe you're picker than you thought. Just let it happen naturally. Good luck.
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u sound lik me, i'm 22 extremely goodlookin and charming. i always made out with girls and dated many but could never get hard. then i fell in love with my sr8 best friend and thats how i knew i was gay. so you mght be. i'm in the closet and str8 lookin
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