Does the man who thinks he needs money to get/keep a woman's attention/affection have a low opinion of himself or feel that he has nothing else to offer?
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EvangelineOFire
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I think you are onto something. I have had a couple first dates that were just awful with men like that. The money talk starts almost immediately. "I have" and "I can give you" sort of talk. The date feels more like an interview or some odd financial chat. It's the quickest way to lose my interest!
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Chances are that he has encountered women to whom nothing mattered more than money.
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Or maybe that's the been his experience, that the women are out looking for a sugar-daddy.
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In some cases he may have low self esteem. In others it maybe that for the type of woman he wants (eg. much younger) money might help that.
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Nah, he's probably had nothing before and women wouldn't pay attention to him because he was a loser, now he's sucessful. during a date women don't react well to. "Could you give me a ride home by 11pm? My mom hates it when I get home late." Or, "Hey, we can go hang out at the laundromat, and then go to Taco bell for dinner." and the ever so clasic, "My manager at Walmart says if I keep it up, I'll get to be an assistant manager in a few years." Women tend like men who can take care of them, and showing off thier wealth is the way to show that.
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As a general rule, men DO need money to keep/get a woman's attention. As they say: "Gotta pay to play". Money is make-up for men. It makes a man seem more attractive than he really is to a large number of women, perhaps even the majority. It took me many years to find a woman that was not obsessed with money. Now, men who are insecure or of low character and wealthy can attempt to use money as a tool to get women. The reason they do this is because it works often enough to be a valid option. The simple reason is, men use money to get women because there is a solid percentage of women who value money above all else.
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I believe so, yes.
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It's more of the: Bucks mean women's attention. Do you really think Steven Tyler or Mick Jagger would've been as successful with the women if they'd be non-rich?
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