Boyfriend is 44. He stays hard but it takes him forever to ejaculate. He's always wanting to have sex and says that he loves me all the time, but I'm begining to take this sort of personal. What could the problem be? Thanks

The problem is that he is getting old. Don't worry, I bet it has nothing to do with you.

is this really a bad thing?

Dont worry about it at all. He isnt a 21 yr old one hit wonder. Id actually enjoy that myself. Is he doing his part to get you off? Giving oral and touching and such? If so, save up your energy and love every minute of it. You could have my husband and never have another orgasm as long as you both shall live! Count your blessing here. (trust me on this one)

This is not something you should take personally. There could be a number of medical reasons for this, none of which affect his health. If he stays hard and is attentive to your needs and desires and enjoys satisfying you, then the good news is that he lasts a long time, since he has not ejaculated. The last thing in the world you want to say to him is "I wish I could make you cum". You are not obligated to make him cum and it would be much better to say, "Wow, I love how long you stay hard and can always get it back up. It's amazing." If you want to check this out, go to Justanswer.com and chat with a urologist online. It'll cost you 25 bucks or so, but it may ease your mind.

I would also note that you are not obligated to let him pound away forever until he cums. When you think it has gone on long enough, gently coax him to stop for a few minutes so you kiss, hold, play, whatever and then do it again later. He probably feels obligated to cum for you and is having trouble doing it, so needs to know that you do not take it personally.