Should i call it quits. i have been married for 7 years now. the past 2 years have not been good. my husband has not worked in 4 years. all he does is set around the house and play on his computer. he treats me like i am his maid.
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"...For richer, for poorer, in good times and bad..." Only you and you husband know whether you should end your mairriage, but when you took vows, however they were worded, you promised to help each other through life, not just hang around until things get tough. Maybe a marriage counselor could benefit the two of you. Have you both even sat down and really discussed the issues at hand? Perhaps your husband is depressed and shoul seek medical assistance. Maybe he's lazy and needs to be inspired. We don't throw a car away because the tires are flat; I've heard couples come through much more compelling and dramatic issues. Good luck to you.
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If your husband has not worked in fours years and does not want to contribute to this relationship you have a problem. It takes two to make a marriage work – I say move on.
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Could it be a variation of "The Seven-Year Itch"? http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0048605/ OTOH, I think I agree with Gideon.
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Not if you have children. :/
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I think the answer is obvious. But putting it to a popular vote might make you feel better somehow. If you need my vote to get up and do something for yourself, here it is: Zazzy waives her hand in the air.
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