by Disko Fari on November 3rd, 2009

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My boyfriend did'nt get me anything for my 17th birthday, we've been dating for 9 months.. Should i be upset with him?

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  • by Freedom00 on November 3rd, 2009

    Freedom00

    I don't know if you should be upset with him. However, I think it is time the two of you had a long talk about remembering important dates

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  • by Vaporeongirl on November 3rd, 2009

    Vaporeongirl

    If he is going broke or had some horribly large expense around the time of your B-day, no. If not, he doesn't care about you. Be angry with him and dump him.

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  • by cold_cut on November 3rd, 2009

    cold_cut

    wow!!hey even a simple gesture like a flower, common!! not asking for the world!! i hate effortless ppl and a boyfren for 9 whole months woooh!! shows how much you mean huh!!babe m just being honest, i kno its awkward to even ask why n all that but you should see the signs clear enuff.

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  • by Sherri on November 3rd, 2009

    Sherri

    Was he aware of the date? If he was, then, YES, I'd be upset. Even a single rose would have worked!

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  • by weatherman taking week or so off on November 3rd, 2009

    weatherman taking week or so off

    yup. He did know the date, right?

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  • by gtravels loves her life penguin on November 3rd, 2009

    gtravels loves her life penguin

    Not even a card? Did he completely forget? Is he having financial problems? What's the story?

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  • by The Gay Expositor Avenges His Lordship on November 3rd, 2009

    The Gay Expositor Avenges His Lordship

    Yes you should. Get him back by giving him "a gift" in another nine months that will last a lifetime.

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  • by jesster on November 3rd, 2009

    jesster

    YES! thats just not good enough, someone needs more training! my bf gave me a diamond necklace for bday and we'd only been dating 2 months then!

  • by Vanessa The Rose on November 3rd, 2009

    Vanessa The Rose

    this is a bad phenomenon!!
    what's the matter with you guys?
    the lady's in love with you!
    she's willing to give all she has, just ask her to. and you're ignorant?!


    why don't you show some emotion in some occasions?

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  • by philosopher-saint on November 3rd, 2009

    philosopher-saint

    Naw. Adolescent males ain't the most 'thoughtful' folks!
    ;-)

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  • by ALM4 on November 3rd, 2009

    ALM4

    i would be upset!! ....im not expecting anything material but at least a card and flowers...my boyfriend didnt get me anything for our 2 year anniversary not even a card or flowers :( ...and i got him a card and wrote a whole freaking essay and gave him a gift...and he didnt i dont even kno if i should mention it to him or not?....but oh well

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  • by Sunshine in a COAT of Sunshine on November 3rd, 2009

    Sunshine in a COAT of Sunshine

    Yes you should be upset if he knew it was your birthday. Have a talk with him because this is only the beginning of the hurt you most likely will have being with someone who doesnt think enough of your feelings to even pick a flower from the yard next door and give it to you.

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  • by Kingpinn on November 3rd, 2009

    Kingpinn

    Yes. A card, at least.

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  • by Factotum on November 3rd, 2009

    Factotum

    Don't waste time being upset. Educate him. If you think you could spend your life with him except for __________ it is your job to deal with the except for part. Women vary in how much they care about various -days. Let him know what you expect and he'll deliver.

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  • by nothingtoloose on November 3rd, 2009

    nothingtoloose

    YES YES YES

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  • by jacinthemilton on November 3rd, 2009

    jacinthemilton

    A little bit upset yes but does it really matter if he had a gift or not.

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  • by dmb86 on November 3rd, 2009

    dmb86

    I dont think you should be upset as longs as he at least said happy b-day to you. If you are normal and are dating a guy your age, then he may not have any money to buy you a gift. Just a thought...

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