Guys, would you help me with a poll I'm taking? Would you say that you are okay with the fact that your S/O wants to change you? And are you willing to change?
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ANSWERS: 3
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I would make small and reasonable changes yes. I may even make an occasional large one if I felt it was necessary to hold the relationship together and make my S/O happy. I would not however allow myself to be continuously molded into a completely different person with no fathomable benefit for myself.
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My wife doesn't really want to change me. She wanted me to drive more slowly, so I am now. However, it took some encouragement from the California Highway Patrol to get me completely on board for that. ;) I would be willing to change for her as long as it was for her benefit and at least not detrimental to me.
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Hi, how are things going? I don't think he does want to change me but if he did then yes I'd change whatever the problem was.
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