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What is crucial now is how you deal with it. You need to sit down with your child and have an open honest discussion with him.
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I doubt any damage will be done. When my son was five I took him to a Harley rally and there were chicks everywhere that were topless. He laughed about it. He is twenty now and in Iraq with the National Guard. When he was in high school he was quite the ladies man. In all he has turned out fine.
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The only damage is your silly overreation. Why don't you worry about YOU?
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Stop him seeing it and tell him its only for older boys. Do not put it down or anything or you might change his sexuality from what it is, but just tell him that he is not allowed to see it and make sure you stop it but do not make too much of a thing about it in front of him or he will react - you know what kids are like! Talk about sex education with a child from age of twelve, and introduce a male role model to do the same for him, to get him to confide in adults and not hide secrets. It will not have caused any damage.
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Prolly not too much. Seven is right around the time they start asking these sorts of questions anyway. With him having seen all that it is prolly time for "the talk".
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Ok thats funny. Why do little kids always like girls gone wild. I remember my little brother when he was 10 talking to me about him jacking off and porn that he watched on tv so I guess its normal lol.
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No damage done, the only reason age seven is seemingly young to see such materials is because society has told you so. Consider the fact that far before the existence of our modernized societal values, people were parenting children at the ages of 11 and 12!
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I think this is every young boy dream. My husband told me he us to stay up let just to see the promos he said once he turn 18 that he would buy them.Yet he never did. Personally I would talk to him buecause all kids are curious and will sneak . But I dont believe no permanted damage will be done.
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I think that everyone mistakes. But you must sit down and talk with your son about the wrongness. What he did was not necessarily innocent. He knew what he did was wrong. Its hard to say the person who actually had it on there laptop should be the one having this talk with them due to a hypocrisy issue. Maybe, with an apology to him then an explanation why it was wrong. Now if he found it on a website and not on your hard drive by all means have a talk with him. Let him know why it was wrong for that can lead him down a bad road.
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I seriously doubt if any HARM was done to your son ... All he is seeing is NAKED women ; don't see how that is porn ; but to each their own .... However; I do agree with most of the other posters; that you need to have THE TALK asap ... also; since he knew it was wrong to watch or he wouldn't have sneaked onto your laptop ; thus a Punishment should be given ... nothing severe ; just enough to teach him NOT to SNEAK anymore ... maybe like take his video games away for a WEEK .... Be sure to explain that he is being punished for SNEAKING .. not for the content that he watched ... +5
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He'll treat women like the guy in GGW...
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sadly he will now become a serial killer stalking young coeds who lift their shirts to strangers with cameras. but seriously, he was just curious it's not going to turn him into a sex maniac or destroy his mind. what does that is mishandling finding out he saw cheese cake. if you go crazy on him, he could associate anything sexual as wrong and become a repressed, disturbed person (and yes, possibly a serial killer) look at the film series "psycho" a sexually repressed and abused momma's boy
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Just don't lose your mind over it and don't make a big deal out of it. I would suggest you gauge his reaction to what he saw and if he has questions answer them as best you can with respect to his age. This hits a little close to home for me since just yesterday my 7 year old daughter walked in on me when I was changing my clothes one morning (I'm her dad.) I made more of a point of talking about knocking on closed bathroom doors before walking in. But I think I was more traumatized by the fact that my daughter saw me naked than she was. Good luck my friend. I hope this is the worst you ever have to deal with. Be well.
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just be sure to counteract anything with the old reliable "sex with out love is boring" sentence once in awhile....-now if you're really concerned, it's time to get all that off your computers for a while, sorry.
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