I'm social and fun to be around when I'm in GROUPS of friends, but I feel like I'm awkwardly boring when I'm only with one other friend. This also applies with crushes, is this normal, or have I just not found the right guy that I'm most comfortable with?

This akwardness you feel is a minor affliction that will take thoughtful strides to overcome; I know because I spent many years in the same place you are in now. The problem is that you are dependent on social groups because you dont know who you are without them.

To overcome the akwardness that you feel in one-on-one interactions, it is going to take dedicated work on your part. You need to take considerable time away from your social groups, to concentrate soley on Who You Are as an independent individual, and then build up your beliefs, perceptions on life, hobbies, and interests, and things that make you special and unique.

Once you have a solid understanding, appreciation, and respect for who you are alone, it will shine through as confidence, and you will be able to handle personal relationships with ease.

You need to take time to know who you are away from your friends, and cut the dependency stings. Your friends wont be able to prop you up for life.

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I'm social and fun to be around when I'm in GROUPS of friends, but I feel like I'm awkwardly boring when I'm only with one other friend. This also applies with crushes, is this normal, or have I just not found the right guy that I'm most comfortable with?

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