Buy some CDs with tracks on it like: Going to the chapel of Love (When will you marry me) Bill? White Wedding etc That might give him the hint...

Get knocked up! I'm just kidding. Go and drop hints everywhere, like wedding magazines and stop in every jewelry store you can find.

DO NOT GET PREGNANT. Why not just be a grownup about it? Something like sitting down after a nice meal (not during) at your house, or his house, in private, and just telling him, "Fred, I need to know where this relationship is going." Don't be melodramatic about it. Don't warn him in advance that "Saturday, come over and we'll Have A Talk." Ask your question without drama, and let Fred answer you. If your goals match up, tell him so. If they don't, tell him that, also. You can then tell him any number of things. Pick the one that is most honest; don't try to strategize this. --"Fred, it's been great, but I am ready for marriage now, and I need to find someone who feels the same way. I don't think we should see each other any more." --"Fred, it's been great, but I am ready for marriage now, and I need to find someone who feels the same way. We can keep seeing each other, but I will be looking for someone who's on the same track I am." --"Fred, you sound like you need more time to decide when you'll be ready for marriage, and if you want to marry me. Let's talk about this again in [a month, two months]." Or whatever. But don't dawdle around waiting for Fred, and DON'T try to "make" him do anything. Magical, you're entitled to a guy who is DYING to marry you, not one who has to be prodded into it. Go find that guy! He's out there, and how horrible it would be to already be married to Fred when the RIGHT guy comes along.

Thanks guys! I am not desperate or anything. I am just ready. I know what i want exactly and I will get it too cos i know i deserve it. No ridiculous manipulation techniques will be used! just a bit of intelligent psychology? this is what i am looking for... :)

If you're fairly confident he wants to get married, why not propose yourself? Women propose a lot more often than you think. Also a lot of couples just kind of mutually agree on getting engaged in casual conversation, like, "hey, what do you think about getting married?" "hmm, maybe after I graduate next summer.." etc. That whole "down on one knee with a ring" thing is a bit outdated, not to mention a scam by the diamond industry to sell their wares... ;) If you're not invested in having a big proposal scenario, why not initiate the conversation yourself? Rather than passive-agressively pushing him into doing it? Just a thought.

Hi, I would let him know that you would like to set up counseling for Pre-marital couples and see how he feels about the idea? Oh, and you do realize that YOU can ask HIM right? Good luck Sweety :o) Love, Mandy

A few Women's magazines have ran articles about the "Engagement Chicken". There have been tons of stories about women getting engaged after making this for their boyfriend- give it a shot!! Engagement Chicken A chicken with ultracrisp skin and a subtle lemon flavor. Rumor has it that if you cook this for your boyfriend he will propose.. here's to hoping. :o) 2-3 servings 1¼ hours 20 min prep 3 lbs whole chickens 2 medium lemons 1/2 cup fresh lemon juice kosher salt or sea salt (to taste) ground black pepper (to taste) Place rack in upper third of oven and preheat to 400 degrees. Wash chicken inside and out with cold water, remove the giblets, then let the chicken drain, cavity down, in a colander until it reaches room temperature (about 15 min) Pat dry with paper towels. Pour lemon juice all over the chicken (inside and outside) season with salt and pepper. Prick the whole lemons three times with a fork and place deep inside the cavity. (Tip: If lemons are hard, roll on the countertop with your palm to get juices flowing.) Place the chicken breast-side down on a rack in a roasting pan, lower heat to 350 and bake uncovered for 15 minutes. Remove from oven and turn it breast-side up (use wooden spoons!); return it to oven for 35 minutes more. Test for doneness - a meat thermometer inserted in the thigh should read 180, or juices should run clear when chicken is pricked with a fork. Continue baking if necessary. Let chicken cool for a few minutes before carving. Serve with juices. Serve with boiled new potatoes tossed with olive oil and fresh chopped parsley and/or steamed asparagus with butter. Enjoy.

i so now where your coming from!!! ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and i was also going nuts... i wanted to get married all ready!! but he was not ready yet..... and i tried to to the hole dropping hints.... i was always talking about it.... every jelwery store we would walk by i just had to go look at the rings.... and nothing worked " belive me nothing will speed up the process"!!!! it just turned around on me, i thought i was being the smart one but he just got tired of always hearing "marrage" so it started to get kinda rocky for about 3 months we would fight about everything!!!! Untill i just kinda let it go i gave up..... and my mom and i were talking and i think she gave me the best advice ever..... she just told me to " GROW UP" and i did!!! I did not talk about it, i stoped droping hints , and stoped looking at every enggagment ring i passed by... i guess i grow up and while i was growing he was to, he stated to drop hints on me i was not paing much attention to them so i acted like i was not dying for marrage i just gave him space and IT WORKED i guess he felt as if i as not as interested in our relationship so he stared to feak out and then when i least expected it he poped the question!!!! All in all just give him space and let i happen on its own.... dont over invaid his space!!! if anything do the complete oppiset dont dont drop hints or talk about it act like its coo either way marrage or no marrage....

Let me start off my saying "been there." Next I will tell you that even after convincing him to hurry up and propose he may still be hesitant to make wedding plans. When I was 21 my now ex-fiance finally proposed to me after 4 years of dating. I was really excited, but became more and more irritated when he failed to agree to a wedding date. We never did set a date, and I finally left him 2 years later. Never, never pressure someone into hurrying things along! When he is ready, it will happen!!!

Maybe he doesn't want to marry you.

Ask him to marry you, if your that confident than theres no real reason you can't ask him. On the other hand, their may be a good reason he hasn't asked you that, remember that.

There is somthing comming up - where you can propose to the man on a leap year on feb 29 i think - i am not sure of all the details but it is some scottish tradition - and if he says no you can fine him -

Have you discussed marriage with him? Are you sure he wants to get married? and to you? If you answered yes to all three...then just be content with that and wait for it...he probably has a plan. I always hear, too, that things tend to happen when you least expect them to...so just forget about the getting engaged part and just love him. If you didn't answer yes to the first three questions, then the two of you need to do some serious talking, soon! Good luck and be patient!

I have been with my boyfriend for two years, last time I talked about marriage he freaked out by saying he is not ready I tried to give him all the hints about rings, friends engagements all the other tricks in the book, but he never responded to any of them, so we broke-up. Three months later we got back together. I just couldn’t be with out him, I know he is the one but when will ever propose? … What should I do?

Give him an ultimatum -- guys LOVE it when you do THAT...

Never ever ever force or trick somebody to do something - that is soooooooo grade school . you will regret it .