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I'm almost 20 and the guys my age are still by and large guilty of the behaviors you mentioned. But not all of us. Find a good guy. Not all of us care about sex. P.S.: Actually don't find a guy yet. You're only 14. In a few years, then find a good guy.
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If you are 14 I imagine you are around a lot of very juvenile young men. They act that way when they are around their friends, yes, but it also shows what kind of character they have. I would look for young people men and women that you would feel proud to know and proud to be friends with without compromising your own standards. It's great to be honest and silly with your friends, but when it becomes cool to disrespect others, that is not something I want to attach myself to. The good people are out there in droves too.
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Men are more visually oriented, which is why men are more focused on body image. That's just plain old hardware. As for the perverted jokes, it's part wanting to connect with women but covering it with lightness, part competing with other guys to see who has the loudest bark, and part using a loud bark to cover up being afraid to bite.
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Yep, sorry to say you are learning this so young. Not all men are like this but finding one's that aren't are definitely a challenge. It isn't an age thing. Most men grow up in homes where respect for women is non-existent. Always get to know a guys family, then you will know what you are dealing with. If the father in a home has no respect for his wife or women in general then that's what his son will learn. Stay away from these guys at all costs. You will be glad you did.
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Over the course of your lifetime, you're going to meet good and bad in any given group of people, men included. Some will be knuckleheads like the ones you describe and some will be the best people in the world. The trick is to figure out who is who and have the confidence and self respect to surround yourself with the winners!;)
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Most men are looks oriented, its true, because what you look like is their first impression of you, and because yeah, their hormones might make them have shallow tastes. but not all. theres some good guys out there who for different reasons can get past that. about perverted.. most guys are not even close to as perverted as their jokes. they joke about perverted things because they cant identify with them. if they really were into the things they were joking about, the probably would not be comfortable sharing about it with a large group of friends.
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