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Time, time, time!! If you can talk to the person and work it through, that helps. Otherwise your self worth will take over and you will start to want someone who really wants you! Be patient with yourself!
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I don't think I would want to stop loving a person just because they stopped loving me. I'd still love them, but would attempt to stop worrying about them not loving me. I'd keep that love that I have, but still be able to love others. The love would not always be as strong, but it wouldn't diminish. There's lot of love to go around.
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I personally have found that if you truly loved them, a part of you will always love them for what they were to you. In time, it eases, and it isnt the "in love" feeling... more of an appreciation of what they once were to you.
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One good thought at a time. You only have THIS minute. RIGHT NOW. Stop thinking ahead or behind. Go with the flow of things NOW. Take up a hobby, meet new people, but think in the Now.
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Try to remember the reasons things didn't work out and focus on that. There is not one single perfect relationship and when they stop loving you there's a reason. Usually it comes out with or without their explanation. I agree with living in the moment day by day, just get through each day and don't romantacize the past or dwell on lost dreams. Just what it is today right now...
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You don't. You just keep reminding yourself that loving someone and being with them are two separate things.
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Vodka may help sometimes...:-)
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There is no reason you should. You can move on to love another and still love them.
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Eventually it fades. You'll always remember the pain of a broken heart though.
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If I knew the answer to this I would be a very rich person. In time your feelings will fade, it can take days, weeks, months or sometimes even years. You just need to rely on your friends to keep you positive and happy, they can help you to move forward with your life.
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If you are open to allowing that door to close, another will open, I promise. It takes a lot of patience and really not that much time. The mind will accept what you ask it to do.
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Start thinking more of their flaws
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YOU may NEVER stop loving them.. but you can live without seeing, talking and yes sometimes thinking of them.. good luck.. I find that when I think of the person I try to always make myself think of something bad that happened while we were together.. in time it will all be better I promise
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There is a song called "heart of the matter that deals with this.
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This is one of the most complicated human dilemmas. Trying to entirely forget that person and what they meant to you is pretty unlikely to happen. However, what you can do is keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy; volunteering and whatnot. Chances are you will meet someone nice there and a relationship will develop. It is also critical to have good friends around you, who will be there for you in this time of need, and you can acquire those as well if you volunteer for something that interests you.
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Send them off with your well wishes and move on. You will find happiness again.
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Find out how you started loving that person first. Did you start loving him/her by "your" own authority or did it happen spontaneously? If it was by "your" authority then it is going to take "your" authority to stop loving him/her. But if it all started spontaneously, likewise will it end spontaneously. the problem is most of us tend to get addicted and cling to people and once they leave us or someone else or death takes 'em away from us, we feel that a part of us is gone too and only that missing element completes us or makes us whole. This is a false, self created idea by the ego that seduces the unconscious mind. When people come into your life, embrace them. Don’t be judgmental, become attached, or resist them. When they leave, accept the reality of them gone and stay open mined. Freely they came into your life, freely they shall break away.
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Try to rationalize. Human beings exist out of 75% water in a carbonlike shell. Just fill a bath tub and look at it for a while. It worked for me. I maintained respect, but it helped to bring my adoration to a more acceptable level. I'm sorry to say it needs some time as well....
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Provoke Him/Her to tell You why REALLY. When You menage to do that, which might require some drastic measures, You will stop loving Him/Her after that. ... or!! in rare cases, this might make You realize, that You must change Yourself.
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i think that when time goes by and u realize that the other person doesnt care any more , u stop caring aswell . life goes by and by time u will have less feelings 4 that person .
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