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If you really like him, enjoy the sex, and why feel guilty now??....You have been doing it for a year.
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It looks like it is not heading anywhere. You don't seem to be interested in a commitment, and rather have it go on forever as before. Just tell him how you feel and don't let him make nonsensical projects. Alternatively, you could take the occasion and give it a try. But insist on the fact that you are not sure if this is what you really want.
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Where is the 'relationship' heading? It sounds to me like it's already on a very deceitful path. He loves you? Yeah right. It doesn't even sound like he knows what love is.
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It's heading toward you living with a man who appears to be okay with running from responsibility in pursuit of what feels good for him. It's also heading toward you in a relationship with a cheating bastard.
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I slept with a married man for over a year. It's an empty way of life. And your settling for a roll in the hay every now and then. You realize you don't have a "real" relationship. You can't go to the movies, restaurants, without fear of being "seen". That's no life and it's empty. And every encounter is at his bidding (his availability). You do have low self-esteem despite your so called "independence" or else you wouldn't accept this. I know because I've been there. Get off the "I don't deserve better than this" treadmill. He may think that he loves you but chances are he's not leaving his comfortable life for you. And even if he did, you'd never trust him. How could you? Adultery is not a "victimless" lifestyle. If you think so....your kidding yourself. It hurts people in ways you can't imagine. When you get tired of having to cram any feelings you may have for this man deep down inside, it will be time to end this fantasy life. Hopefully sooner, rather than later. You will be so much happier for it.
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