Try these sites: http://www.twistedmonk.com/video.htm http://www.ropecast.net/ http://www.knottyboys.com/code/index.php http://www.bondage-guide.net/ http://www.ropefashions.com/ http://www.wizdomme.com/infopack/ http://www.bedroombondage.com/bondageu/drbondage/basictechniques.html This is just a small sampling of the information available on the net. Surf around. You'll find plenty more.

There is a really popular book.. Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook, and Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes. Knotcrafter (an AB friend of mine) is the real expert on this. I'll show him this question.

Could you possibly mean "bandage"?

Major Tom, Violet referenced your query to me. Your heart is definitely in the right place with your concerns about hurting Meghan and there are some excellent references out there that are readily available inexpensively that contain the information you need to tie your lady love safely yet securely. In addition to the books by Two Knotty Boys and Jay Wiseman, I highly recommend "Bondage for Sex" by Chanta Rose. Her book with Jay Wiseman's "Erotic Bondage" have excellent detailed how-to's with easy to follow illustrations. Both books address safe knot tying, the use of safety signals, different ways to tie your lover in a variety of positions rendering her accessible for whatever devilish delights you have in mind, and a host of other interesting tidbits. Incorporating rope in your playtime need not be scary nor difficult. These books will give you all the information you need to safely incorporate ropecraft in your playtime. I'm a lifelong practitioner of bondage with over 40 years experience of safe ropeplay and I'll be more than happy to help you in any way I can. I'm pretty much either on AB or you can reach me privately at knotcrafter@yahoo.com. Happy reading!

just look in yourlocal book shop there are often books on knots for boy scouts and stuff