ANSWERS: 9
  • Sure it is. Just don't stop doing the things you normally do.
  • Yes. It takes along time to get over someone you cared about. I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • I would say so.
  • People deal with death differently... that's what is normal for you. I'd probably be the same way. I think you need counseling to help you deal with these emotions. Someone you were good friends with passed away.. that's not something you can get over very easily.
  • Everyone grieves at their own speed. You'll get over it when you get over it. If ever. No worries.
  • Yes, your feelings are perfectly normal, and even though they will lessen over time, you will probably NEVER be rid of them, completely. My 17-year-old fiancée died in 1967, 42 years ago, this month. It doesn't hurt as much now, of course, but the memories of her are still in my mind, and I would never wish to forget her, ever. +5
  • Yes it can be normal - people grieve in different ways. But you should honor those who have gone not by grief but by doing what they would have wished you to do in their absence - and that is living your life to the fullest extent possible. It's what they would have wanted you to do.
  • That's normal. I assume you've cleaned him out of the room by now?
  • Yes..Sorry to hear that. it's been 3 years since my Mother died. I still get a bit "Down" but I remember the few good times I had. It's the best way to remember them.

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