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  • Pretty complicated..you aren't going to get anywhere just staying where you are, but even just asking him what he wants could hurt him. You definitely DON'T want to just tell him "I want a divorce." Frankly, I think the best idea is to show him this exact webpage with your question. Of course, you should also explain why you're showing it to him and give more details.
  • If you "stay" with someone just to avoid hurting them you are staying for the wrong reason. You have no control, and NO RESPONSIBILITY for the feelings of another. Each of us has the power to decide how we are going to feel about something. Consider...how is he going to feel when he realizes (which he will, if he is at all sensitive) you are with him not because you love him but because you are feeling charitable toward him? So honor your own feelings, discuss your feelings with him. He might surprise you.

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