Proper dating / un-dating etiquette - I'm not interested in seeing this guy anymore (we're just dating). Do I have the "it's not you, it's me" talk with him, or just not answer his calls?
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T..I..L..A.. feels like wreaking havoc
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We named that "doing a Cory" based on how he used to end all his relationships by just ignoring the person ... I don't think you need to go as far as a "its not you, its me" chit chat, but do tell him ... its the decent thing to do ... if nothing else, blame it on an incredibly sexy guy in Philly ;)
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This is only hard if yer dealin with a sensitive type - If not, either option will do, but if it's a guy you will have to deal with again, give him the courtesy of an "official" sign out. Now for Mr. Sensitive... you must take care here not to create a stalker "It's me" ain't gonna cut it Neither will ignoring him (that will only inflame his passions) There's no nice way to do this, but yer gonna have snip off his proverbial balls and say that you cannot see yourself with him and would prefer to make a friendly break. Whether it's friendly or not is up to him - you are in the clear. ...so, I hear that yer lookin for a new man Tila whattup? +3
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Better if you tell him that you do not see a future in this relationship and end it there.
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