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I would let him go. If he is abusive and manipulative he probably won't listen to you and become defensive. Unless you are still friends, maybe.
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The abusive type of person will not admit that they are abusive as it is always the other persons fault.. Talking does not help. I am blue in the face trying to do that already and all you get is " You made me ..........
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WHY? Sounds like you still want to fix him. You can say it's to save other women, but I think you just want to be his hero and ride off into the sunset on his white horse. WON'T happen. STAY away from danger! Fire is hot, it hurts, don't touch it again!
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Same here im blue in the face trying to make him realise things so ive finally realised that i should be helping myself being happy so i ended my 6 yr relationship 2 days ago when he slapped me and spat on my face and abused my mom who passed away nearly 2 years ago,please help urself staying far away from him because these type of people usually have nutthin they want in life or want too many things in life at once and normally crib abt things and never blame themselves for anything that goes wrong,the fact is that these people are not happy with themselves so no one and nutthing in dis world can make them happy.
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At this point, stay away from him. If you feel the need to point anything out to him, do it by snail-mail and leave identifying info off the letter and envelope. Suggest he get counseling. (Keep a copy of the letter for yourself, to remind yourself of what he was.) Now, whether you actually send it to him or not, is up to you. Maybe you could write it third person, citing examples of how HE did it to YOU, but make it seem like a friend of yours. That way, he may not realize it's from YOU.
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