Because they didn't get the "memo of God".

1) Are they always that? And are other people generally not like that? 2) "There are best, very good, good, medium, bad, very bad, worst people from every religion, language, caste, race, nation etc like normal distribution. We through out the world including our country did not have education, hospital, social care etc for the past 5000 years. One group of bad Europeans came to capture, rule and colonise during mid of 18th century to mid of 20th century. During the same period and even before, the another good group called christian missionaries came from Europe to tell the love of God Jesus Christ and they pioneered and started the schools, colleges, hospitals, social care institutions etc, which has now been followed by us also and by virtue of which India is a super power now. Because of their hospital system our population increased from 300 millions to 1000 millions now in about 60 years, which alone shows the christian missionaries love and honour for our lives and nation. Our Indians about 40 million people are enjoying high life style in so called “christian” countries with the help of them, having dual citizenship benefiting them and our country. Before the mid of 20th century all the countries throughout the world had small and big rulers, kings, dictators etc with kingdoms for every kilometers or hundreds of kilometers; having mass killings, sexual crimes, barbarism throughout the world irrespective of religion, language, caste, race, nation etc. Every ruler will erase the history of his crimes in the past. But after mid of 20th century, we have many countries with democratic governments. We have the Executive, Legislature and Supreme Court with good Press system to ensure democracy and dignity of the individual citizen. Thus we must not demonise any religion, language, caste, race, nation etc which are man made. We all people of the world and our country have common ancestor and we all are relatives irrespective of religion, language, caste, race, nation etc. The scientists have confirmed this fact medically. So we must not do violence/kill our own human relatives for sake of religion, language, caste, race, nation etc. We have a secular constitution and all are equal. The Indian 'christians' are also Indians who are sons of soil and original inhabitants of our Great Country India and have equal rights. Another option “no religion” has to be opted in all forms and census in India. In USA, China etc there is no recognition of religion in forms." Source and further information: http://www.getreligion.org/?p=3865

Because the religion is very relaxing? (No joke - what with the praying and medatation...) ******************************** Can I also add that it's always portrayed as a very positive and blessed religion.

Take my advice: NEVER vacation in Kashmir.

I've met a few before but it seems to me only the Hindu women share those traits.

Intelligent too

You obviously didn't meet my Hindu ex-boyfriend's mother and sister! I wish it would be true to say that Hindus are all soft hearted, warm and very welcoming. Unfortunately, as with all religions, that does not necessarily apply to everyone. The are probably other cultural, rather than religious, factors which decide these attributes too.

bcoz we are HINDU

I struggle to acknowledge the factual inference in the question itself. I've found Hindus to be anything BUT soft hearted, warm or welcoming, but maybe that's just the Hindu's with whom I've had contact.

may not be true all the time. The Hindu is more spiritualistic and it's philosophy will make people take life in a different way than through the materialistic path. Thos who really practised Hindu will never be able to become a materialistic. It is a complete religion and no organization.

I think it's because, in Hinduism, god is in everyone and everything. Non-violence is essential. Atman is Brahman. If god is within all and is all, then to be mean, angry and violent toward another person is the same as being mean, angry and violent toward yourself. You be soft-hearted, warm and welcoming to people is to accept all, to love all, to love god. This is karma, this is love.