If your best friend wanted to marry someone that you felt was absolutely wrong for them, would you try to talk them out of it even if they felt they were truly in love?
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i would prob voice my opinion but not force them in any way
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No... I would (as has happened before when a friend has been dating) express once why I think he isn't a great match, but then I would leave well alone and not bring it up again.
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IF i was friends for a very long time, YEARS, yes i would. But only if.
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No, I wouldn't do that, because once you do, you LOSE your best friend, probably forever. I learned that "life lesson," the HARD way, believe me. +5
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Yes i would, if i truely thought that this person was bad for them, if i had the slightest doubt i would tell them how i feel, but let them see if it turns out ok.
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nope cause they will never forget what you said - even after they have been married 20 years
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Talk them out of it? No. "Truly in love" is not easily accomplished. If that's what they feel, then perhaps they know more about each other than you do.
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No way. Imagine if it was you that was happening to. It's rude. You'd choose your fiance over your friend, I would anyway. Love isn't always recognised from the outside.
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I would talk to my best friend and give my best advise and later i will leave it them to make thier own decision at least in my life i have played my part by telling before then later.
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only if i thought he/she would kill him/her or ruin his/her life but other than that i would let him/her make their own decision but i would maybe state my opinion
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Are you kidding? I'd make sure I knew where they lived and would hide camers outside to see how many times (before one of them kills the other) the cops come by..:)
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nope if id thought they were up to no good id plan all sorts of opportunities for the guilty party to come clean. of course without alienating my friend, they can make their own choice but its hard to date when your table is being attacted by 7 or 8 paint ballers. lol be good to eachother or suffer the conciquences
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I would put in my two cents worth in a diplomatic way, then support them all the way in there upcoming misery.... after all what are friends for... by the way excellent question!
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i don't know if it's wise to think you can "talk" someone out of something like loving and marrying the wrong person. but when/if things fell apart, i would stand by them and help them bear the pain.
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it takes a lot for me to want to stop a marriage... that said I am presently trying to talk someone out of marriage because she does NOT love the guy. she feels he needs her in his life but she is in love with another man who she believes will be fine with out her (but loves her back)
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nope......they have to make their own mistakes.
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