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  • You just might be his "waystation"...you know, the FWB he can always count on when he is needy. I personally would have nothing to do with him. Whatever you decide, good luck! :)
  • Who says you were "second best"? Many people seem to forget that dating people is where we find out a lot about those we're with. When it comes to relationships, this is what dating is FOR! Not every relationship will work out. That's completely unrealistic, and flies in the face of facts. I don't know why this guy "went back with his ex girlfriend". I don't know anything about you or him at all. So I can't say what causes either of you to act the way you do or whether you could 'have a relationship' or not. That's for YOU to decide. But consider this: Just at face value, how can you be 'second place' if he broke up with her? Think about it. If you've dated 6 guys in your life, does that put him at 7th place? If you want to try a relationship with him, then by all means, do so! But treat the relationship with the merits it deserves. If you enter into this thinking you're second place, either you've unfairly handicapped the relationship from the beginning, or there is something there that is telling you NOT to date this guy. Only YOU can determine that.
  • It is possible you could have a realtionship with him, i have 1 friend that this happen'd to and they have been married now for about 8 years, so yea it can work out, but then again it may not work out, its up to you to find out, if you really want too.
  • You were only sort of dating him, whereas he had, at least at one time, a more serious relationship with his ex. Clearly he had unfinished business with her. Sounds pretty finished now, though. . If you decide to start back with him let him know how you feel about first-best so that he understands what is important to you. . But you were never second-best. It's just that she was a pre-existing condition.
  • I suggest you forget about him and focus on Possum. I've heard he really knows how to treat a woman.
  • LOL This isn't the creep that had condoms all over the place is it ?? Only you can decide whether to get into this or not, but if you were second fiddle last time he'll likely use you while he's looking for someone else. Give it some time to figure him out. +5
  • He abandoned you for her, and now he has abandoned her for you? And whom else has he abandoned, and how many? If you don't want to be just an easy lay when he's in town, you ought to forget him. You want a man who cares about YOU more than he cares about having a woman in his bed. I said long ago that I felt paternal toward you, love; I'm just following up.
  • Stranger things have happened. He's split up twice with his ex, maybe he's looking for you.

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