How do I show my b/f that I think he is the most attractive man? I compliment him, but he still doubts me every once in awhile.
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ANSWERS: 9
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now you know how we guys feel when we keep getting the "am i fat?" question ...
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Kick him in the nuts,ha,ha! Oi!
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You shouldn't have to constantly build up your b/f's self image. It gets real old and tiresome after awhile. FIRMLY remind him that it's HIM that you're with, not someone else, so he MUST be attractive. If he persists on taking a stand with this, advise his that you find this lack of confidence off-putting and LESS that attractive. You might add that you don't appreciate his questioning your judgement on this. OR... ...you might simply give him the silent treatment whenever this subject arises. When he asks you why you're not speaking to him, curtly reply that you don't appreciate the topic of conversation and you refuse to discuss it any further. If he values your relationship, he'll take the hint and change his attitude.
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Its funny that the answers here are all somewhat biased, and they sound like all women answers except for the ego male, I think the real thing is to communicate (like saboteur said, except kinda missing the point,) more. Usually in my experiences, such talk is because it isnt endorsed by actions. Its not about the "hearing" it. Its about the lack of seeing it.
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Show him that you care. If that is not enough, he needs more than you to crack through the insecurities.
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doubt is a good thing. you dont want him preening in front of a mirror. Just smile when you see him. That should do it. He will know he is handsome in your eyes.
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I don't play golf so I apologize I don't understand your first phase, but that is correct. +2 for that ^^D
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look into his eyes and say u cant stop staring
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Which is even more funny, because that one female decides to comment like this. First of all, I think you missed the point of my message,(or I apologize for not making myself clear). And no, I am not biased. I said specifically "in my experience" to denote that I am giving my opinion of >my experiences.< If you want to say this is biased, then fine it still is acceptable. Finally, I said "women answers". I didn't say all of the answers are from women. And in short, you being the only person(and female mind you,) to comment and with such distaste is disappointing. Thanks for trying to read deeper into questions, and ask questions to find out about my motives and reasoning behind my answers before you made stupid comments. No hard feelings.
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