Is exchanging romantic/sexual emails with someone long distance considered cheating?
(even though nothing will probably come of it)
If the partner doing the emailing tells the other partner right off the bat, is it still wrong?
by 
emily6
ANSWERS: 12
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Is it deceptive and unfair to your partner if s/he doesn't approve? Yes. If you tell your partner? No, it's not cheating.
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If you do so against your partner's wishes, it's wrong. If you start before ASKING your partner if it is ok, and then just end up 'telling them', then yes, it is cheating.
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ummmmm, let me check with my wife ... ... ... HELL YES!!!
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Right and wrong are personal feelings. If both partners are ok with the actions, then there's no problems.
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unless the other partner agrees to an open realtionship, it is wrong AND it is cheating. The word "probably" does not indicate that this person has no intent on following through with these sexual acts, only that this person hasnt figured out how to make it happen YET.
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I think a certain level of distant flirt is OK (in fact I do it all the time). However, anything that I would be ashamed to reveal to my gf is wrong. Listen to your conscience
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Just because you aren't cheating in the physical sense doesn't mean you aren't cheating on an emotional level. The body/mind still respond in the same way. That's why Jesus said to look on a woman and to lust after her you've committed adultery in your heart (mind). Any time you give your emotional and real energy (time) to another person in place of your SO your taking away from that relationship.
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It does not bode well for a loving, healthy, happy, faithful relationship in any way I can fathom! I see it as EMOTIONALLY cheating, even if you told your spouse you are doing it. It's slimy.
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It is not cheating, however, it is wrong.
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If it involves deception, then yes.
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u twat what do yo think
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If you wouldn't do/say it in person... then why is it okay to do it over the internet? People have this misconception that the internet is some free ground where the rules of reality don't apply. When you get on your computer.. you are still YOU... YOU still have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Doing something online that you wouldn't do in person is disrespectful to your significant other and just as bad.
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