Brie, the answer is really the same as to your earlier question. If you have to ask, then you are not ready. Kissing at 13 is fine. But if you haven't even kissed yet, why are you asking about more sexually advanced things?

Why are you so eager to start all this activity? Are you sure you are not being pressured into this? (You said you weren't but you are sure very curious.) You can start kissing when it feel right. I got my first real kiss at 13 and I am none worse for it. Just make sure that whatever you do, you do it because its what YOU want. Never let ANYONE pressure you into doing ANYTHING you don't want to. Also, early sexual behavior, gets around - is it worth the possible rep you may get by doing all this? Think carefully before you proceed with anything. And when you should decide to proceed with sex be smart and be safe and demand a condom for a start. I think you need to speak to a counselor and while you will probably get good advice on here from people who have kids your age, you should speak to someone face to face. Perhaps even your doctor.

fingered? is that what I think it is? I hope not... but if it is, then definitely, at 13, DO NOT! as for kissing: of course you can kiss, but there are different types of kissing. there is kissing on the cheek, there is kissing on the mouth, and there is deep passionate kissing. I would not advise you at 13 to take part in deep passionate kissing. You are young emotionally, but your body may be ready to go further. Deep kissing can take you places you are not ready to go and girls CAN get pregnant at 13. and ANY can get diseases, and mental scarring from trying to handle relationships they are not prepared for. Kissing on the mouth is a danger because it can get more passionate, but if you set your boundaries, then maybe. I would think, though, no. Leave it a few years. I can remember a guy trying it on me at about 13 and I felt put upon. It's not a game. You are not backward or babyish or whatever if you don't. You are, in fact, doing yourself a big favour. Stay with the kisses on the cheek for as long as you possibly can. Don't give into pressure from others: this is your life, not theirs. You have to live with yourself and the consequences of your actions. I was given a cigarette at 11. I gave it back. My companions (I won't call them friends) laughed at me all the way up the street, calling me baby and other names, but I stuck to my decision. Today, many years later, I am still smoke free, and have not a regret in the world. I wonder about them sometimes, but then, I haven't seen them in years... Be strong. Respect yourself and your body.

when i was in year 6 i kissed. But i didnt finger.

just finger yourself, I mean thats why god gave you fingers.

this is a terrifing question...