ANSWERS: 8
  • Not for a minute. Coz they're miserable, every other family member should be too? How would that benefit them? Or me??!
  • No, but I might not invite them! It's your future, not theirs.
  • No. It wasn't an abandonment when he/she wanted to get married, but it is for you? Doesn't make sense to me. And like someone else already said, it's your life.
  • NOOOOOO! Of course you should not! They do that because they are hurt and are afraid that you might end up like them. But every marriage and every person is different. What has happened to your family member has nothing to do with you. And if you make him/her happy and call off your wedding you would be losing your chance in life to content someone else and make miserable your own life.
  • No and I wouldn't be inviting them to the wedding either.
  • HELL NO!!! That's not my problem. That family member would have to get over it. It's not fair that you have put your happiness on hold because they are miserable. Misery loves company.
  • No, how would putting off or canceling your wedding help your family member? Is your question motivated by a real life situation or just a what if? If it is real I have to say this. If that person or other family members or friends have pressured you to put off or cancel your wedding they are selfish, small minded and petty. No wonder they were dumped! If your family member cannot help you celebrate your day without damping the day with their own self pity I'd say they ought to stay home.
  • No. That's her problem, not mine. I wouldn't ruin the most special day in my life for a problem that's not mine. +5

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