If your partner admitted to you they had cheated, but the fact they came to you on their own and confessed, would you give them a second chance?
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I gave her a 4th chance but she had only cybercheated.... thing is she never successfuly decieved me, I knew it was happening and was biding my time giving her more rope, she would either use it to tie herself to me or hang herself... she did the latter and ran away with her 3rd boyfriend in 6 months... a mier week after relapsing with BF#2. that goodness she is gone.
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No. They don't get any special prizes for that.
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Yes, if they admitted. However if it was with a mutual friend....no dice then.
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It would depend on what they did and who they did it with. For example, if they were with an old friend of theirs, and they flirted and maybe kissed, I would be PISSED but I wouldn't end it the first time. But if they did anything with any of my friends, or went beyond kissing... It would be over.
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Been there, done that. Lasted another 5 years, and we divorce, though not because of that.
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He would have to do some major explaining. There is never an excuse to cheat, but people do make mistakes. He may have been testing the relationship to see how much you care. For him to tell you is a good thing and at least he came clean. Give him a second chance if you can live with what he did, but if he does it again..kick his ass to the curb
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Of course.
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Yeah, I would give them a second chance, but it's going to be a long time before I can really trust them again. Cheating would definitely hurt me deeper than almost anything else, and if he did it again after he came to me and tried that "I came to you on my own" thing again, there wouldn't be another chance waiting. I am not going to sit there and be someone's doormat because he can't keep his pants to himself.
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