Why do guys think when it comes to sex, women only do things to please them? We want to please ourselves first just like you! If I give a bj it is because It arouses me. I couldn't do it just to please someone!
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blondie44
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I dont think the same way you do well kind of I do like to do things to please myself but I also like to do things to please the man If I do something to him Im not doing it because I want something in return a spontanious bj then back to the house work is fab
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When it comes to sex, you have to meet halfway. It is not fair if one person does all the work.
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To each, their own... you know, different strokes for different folks...
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You can't tell a guy a bj arouses you.... it results in them almost expecting it and not putting as much work in to arousing you cause they think their bj did the job...
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I don't know what kind of sex your having but when I have sex it's for both of us not just for one person, you talked about bj well they invented 69 for somethin. Even though I'm gay same rules apply, it's not about 1 person it's about both of you and doing what you both want and if that's not the case when your having sex well sex is boaring.
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Probably because too many women do. Culturally 'having a so' is still much more important to women than it is to men. So they tend to try harder to keep the relationship going. Give more and dont ask for as much. Ideally both would give, out of love. but most of us still have a long way to go to get to that.
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Speak for yourself. I want to please my partner just as he wants to please me. Neither of us are out for self gratification which we can achieve alone. Does that mean I would do something I find distasteful? Never, but then, he would not expect me too.
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