Don't let him touch you ever again. Were you on here earlier this week asking about this? I recall a vaguely familiar situation.

Dear Questioner: Most children (or teens) who are raped when they are young (or maybe even older) get traumatized for life. If you were in a court case ( or are in one currently), even if you loved (or love) your Dad with all your heart, it's VERY important to tell the truth. You know your father did something seriously wrong and abusive that he wasn't supposed to do. Since I've dealed with a lot of these cases, I know that they end up OK. You shouldn't have to worry about it. If you tell the courts that you love your father very much but you don't appreciate what he did, then they might just put him in jail for a while. It may hurt you and make you feel bad, but your father really does deserve it. If you feel that if you tell then he will so something more to you, then tell the courts to protect you. If your mom doesn't know, be sure to tell her. If you can handle the situation correctly, I'm pretty sure you'll be fine. Chill. Sincerely, Your Answerer, Crystal Gonzalez

[Comment only.] I would just like to know how anyone could rate down this very serious and important question? I truly wish I could provide you with advice, but unfortunately I am not qualified to do so. It might be useful if you provided your approximate location so that people will be able to know what laws to look at. Points for anyone who helps answer this question.

Couseling. Call a crisis line. 1-866-4-CRISIS or 1-206-461-3222 They can direct you to local counseling centers. They adapt to your living situations, income, etc for sessions. I took counseling when my best friend died in high school. Everyone could use counseling. It doesn't make you weird or psychotic. Nobody goes through life alone without any help, and couseling will allow you to sort through your emotions and put it past you. Good luck. And really call.

Im so sorry that you had to suffer through this, and you are being forced to recall it all in front of the man who done this to you. I really wish i knew what to say. But all i can really think of is my nephew. When he was a baby till about the age of 5 he was sexually molested, raped...everything you can think of really. It was the most disgusting thing i have ever had to hear (my sister married his father who DIDNT hurt him his real mothers boyfriend abused him even though she shouldnt be called a real mother if she let something like this happen in front of her eyes) He is 9 now and still remembers every detail, he cries all the time and it really hurts me. I hope that you have someone you can talk to about this that believes you. Anybody really, the best thing you can have is someone to talk to about the way your feeling. In the court they are going to believe you more than they will him. If you can remember every detail including where it happened and when, that will make it even faster. I know it will be hard for you to tell a bunch of people what happened to you but the worst thing that could happen is that youll have to say it in front of him. Ill pray for you and i hope the best...GOOD LUCK!!!

The first thing you should do is seek help through the Department of Child and Family Services. They can help you locate a good therapist, seek legal counsel, and find you temporary housing if necessary. Build a strong support network around you, whether that be friends or teachers at school. The more people you can confide in, the more help you can get.

Believe me they will get you the help you need. Only people that have experienced this kind of abuse could help you understand. It has nothing to do with anything you have ever done. He has a serious problem and you should do what ever you feel comfortable with doing. If you can face the problem and get him where he needs to be you should try vewry hard to do that. If he done this to you, his daughter he is very capable of doing it to otheers. And he may have already hurt others as well. If you can come forward they might find the strength to come forward too. I will be thinking of you. Women and men that have been raped need to take a stand against the evil people that victimize them. There are groups that can help. Be STRONG and stand up for yourself dear. I know it is very hard.

Let the police continue their investigation. this is going to be difficult to prove, without hard evidence on your part. it comes down to a "he said, she said" situation. I am sorry this happened to you and i believe that something happened. proof is what is needed. The fact that this occured many years ago, will also hinder your investigation, by the police.

I'm really sorry. As much as I'd like to help, my answer wouldn't be much better than anyone's here. All I can pretty much say is to be brave, because it seems most people are on your side. You've got a lot of support, including police investigations, and although you probably won't get to know any of us, us. Take their advice, call any civil help hotlines. Go to your friends, or anywhere else where you might find comfort, because they'll be there for you too, better than any response that we answerbaggers could ever give. It's really unlikely that if he's been raping you for 6 years, that no evidence would turn up, so stay strong. If anything, we're supporting you spiritually. And on another note, I think it's great that so many other people showed their concern in this question, even to someone completely anonymous. I hope it stays this way.

Damn, sucks. talk with friends, there are usually a few programs available to help you.

u will be able to prove it just with some simple tests. :) i hope that you get better and this never happens again must of been very horrible

I'm really sorry about that.

Iam so sorry, If ur worried that he will Come For you then go buy some Weghit lifting Equipment unless you got some already, Start working out and Just start joging and Like Punch a Bag or something and start training for If you ever even see Him again an KICK HIS ASS, Then He will Learn not to mess with you, Bc I train myself to fight every day. Just try It. JD

I hope everyone that reads this hugs thier children tight tonite and in thier evening prayers thinks about you and I really do wish you well.

I am sorry you have had such a hard life... :-( Getting your story into the court is a start... If you are firghtened to see him again is understandable... Stay away from him... Things to do... Have a gyno exam & make sure you can provide the evidences you proclaim... If you can videotape or audio tape any converstaions you can have with him to either prove or disprove your claims... DNA is the best evidence you can have if you have anything from the past that could have his DNS on it you could use that against him too...

WHERE IS THE MOTHEFCUKER , SEND HIS BITCH ASS TO PRISON AND SEE HOW HE LIKES GETTING RAPED,,,,,,,, MAN THAT SHIT GETS ME SO MADDDDD..GIRL DONT WORRY HE WILL PAY SOONER OR LATER......

congratulations on telling the police. that's more courage than i ever had! if he is convicted it will help keep him from doing it to someone else as easily. even if he is not convicted, parents will be uneasy about leaving their children with him. you have done a great thing for the world. now do something for yourself. get into counseling. talk to professionals, get help, learn to break the patterns that he taught you so that you don't become a victim for the rest of your life. find something that you love to do (art, a hobby, a sport, anything) and do it for yourself and do it selfishly. victims are taught that anything we want for ourselves is selfish and that selfish is bad but here's the thing .... YOU are the only person that you have to spend every day of your life with and you need to take care of yourself and make yourself happy. ok, i'll get off my soap box now.

I have no advice - just showing you my support. I'm proud of you for pursuing this with court... Big Hugs!

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Dont be afraid to confront him. you are the victim i was molested for 3 years by my brother-in-law and I didnt finish my court case couse I was to scared to. now Im 25 and my whole life has been ruined becouse I didnt persue him. read up on this books helped me and alittle therapy ant bad eithier I still live with him involved around my family and they acted like nothing happend but dont let that happen to you. life is a hard thing to live though and someday you'll feel better you didnt give in. BEFAITHFUL

Answer The Police Truthfully. Tell The You Are Scared He Will Do It Again If He Gets The Chance. I Hope He Gets Life In Prison. You Should To!!

Honey, you are doing the right thing by speaking out about how he hurts you. Stay away from him and don't worry, the police will make sure you get all the support you need. Remember this, you are a very strong girl and none of this is your fault. My little girl had to go to court as well because the same thing happened to her. She is such a strong little girl and you are too. Someone who loves you will never do these horrible things to you. Stay strong and take one step at a time. You will get there. Just remember, no matter how much he lies in court, the truth always wins in the end and they will believe you over him any day. The courts deal with these horrible things all the time and will support you greatly. Don't know where you live but in our country my daughter went to court to tell the judge what happened to her, she was put in a special room so that nobody saw her but the judge. This made it less frightening for my daughter. The police will look after that for you. I will pray for you honey and have lots of trust in you. You are a fighter. God Bless

I am terribly sorry you had such a bad experience. Ask the court to provide you with protection to not live under the same roof as that person. Allow the police to continue their investigations, but you should have had a medical examination, if it can be medically corroborated then the burden of proof will prevail.

The best thing that you can do is to swallow your fear and go with what you know is right. I am so sorry for what you have been going through, I know that this is a hard time for you. When I found out that someone was hurtung my daughter, the first thing I did was to take her to the police station and to report it. It doesn't matter what he says about you or what he says happened. If it goes to trial, it seems scary, but just allow yourself to go on autopilot and skate right through it. The authorities are trained to believe you over him, unless they see something shady. Just tell them the truth and all of it! Dont allow yourself to be with him under any circumstaces. It's too easy for him to try to change your mind or to harm you again. Just hang in there and remember that you are no longer a victim. You're now a survivor! :) good Luck sweetie

I hate to hear when things like this happen...I would never go near him again and definantly keep fighting for your rights..

How old are you now? The only thing that you can do really is to provide the police with as much information as you can. If you are afraid of him then depending on how old you are can get a restraining order against him if you are scared of him forcing himself to you.

WOW THAT'S SOMETHING REALLY HARD TO GO THROUGH WELL YOU KNOW THAT HE DID IT HES GOING TO DENIE IT OF COURSE THAT'S SOMETHING NO RAPIST WAN'T TO ADMIT AND SPECIALLY A FATHER RAPING HIS OWN DAUGHTER JUST SICK THAT MAN IS NOT WELL HE NEEDS SOME PHYCO-THERAPY AS WELL AS JAIL TIME, IS HARD AND I UNDERSTAND THAT HAS ALLWAYS BEEN YOUR FATHER FIGURE I MEAN HES ALL YOU KNOW AS A FATHER BUT LET ME TELL YOU THIS A FATHER IS SUPPOSE TO PROTECT YOU LOVE YOU AND CHERISH YOU NOT RAPE YOU DENIE IT AND PRETEND LIKE IT NEVER HAPPENED SHAME ON HIM.. I SUGGEST YOU NOT TO DO SO YOU KNOW GET CLOSE TO HIM UNLESS IS SUPERVISED. ASK HIM WHY, WHAY DID HE DO IT IT WILL SHOKINGLY GIVE HIM AND YOU COMFORT SO YOU CAN FINALLY SEE THE MAN YOU CALL YOUR FATHER AGAIN IM SORRY FOR THIS TRAGEDY BECAUSE IT IS.

you should try and seek mental health support. i can talk to you on yahoo messenger if you want contact me at diehard25fl@yahoo.com dg