Ask a Question
or
Create a Poll
  1. Home /
  2. Questions /
  3. Relationship Advice
  4. / Sex And Relationships
  5. / Multiple Partners In A Relationship

by melly_little on March 17th, 2007

melly_little

Question

Help answer this question below.

Should you have sex with multiple partners?

  • Like
  • Report
Share:
Other

Answers. 23 helpful answers below.

  • by KagomeShuko on March 17th, 2007

    KagomeShuko

    I could give the Christian answer, and that is "no."

    I could give the answer of being a free American, and you can if you want as long as it is under consent, though not really "legal."

    I'd personally say that it's not a good idea - you don't know what diseases you might get from these people. It's not a good thing to do because that can also cause jealousy and other problems among the people, even if they all claim to consent.

    • Like
    • Report

    2 comments | Post one | Permalink

  • by Katarena on November 22nd, 2007

    Katarena

    Yes, if you and your partner are mature and liberated enough and enjoy the experience, and I must admit that my boyfriend and I are very sexually liberated. In fact, he enjoys seeing me and I enjoy having sexual activity with several males at once. But then again, we're both very sexually liberated, enjoy sex, and our relationship sexually and spiritually is very different than most.

    • Like
    • Report

    2 comments | Post one | Permalink

  • by Stella on April 11th, 2007

    Stella

    i have ... but i wish i hadn't ... so NO!

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by rebellious angel on June 10th, 2011

    rebellious angel

    well as a girl I have the typical multiple guys fantasy and my guy has the typical multiple girls fantasy but we're just keeping them fantasies because we like our sexual monogamy. We satisfy each other completely. Besides we would get jealous in a situation like that, there's a fear of STD's and pregnancy, and I don't want my total number of partners in life increasing. I like to keep the tally marks low.

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by voyeurist_wife on February 9th, 2010

    voyeurist_wife

    Yes, my hubby and I are sexually very active and we’re liberated in terms of sex. Sex is most enjoyable when you and your partner are willing. Throughout our marriage of 10 years I had sexed withonly 3 guys besides my hubby. My hubby who got my cherry. The escapade was started after several years of our marriage, both we wanted to explore and experiement for more sexual satisfaction. Since my hubby is older than me and had had several experienced than me he persuaded me the idea to consider making love to another guy to personally experience how satisfying the other variety of man inside a bedroom. He persuaded me until I accepted the idea and told him I’ll give a try myself if he would arrange for it. Because he likes and I would accept. First we set rules. We have agreement that whatever consequences of our plan both of us answerable and we need to be patient, stronger relationship and be more open for both of us faithfully, more understanding. That’s the time my hubby arranged a date for me with his former colleague who has been been working abroad. We met his friend at suburb resort. After several drinks, we went to our room and made love with his friend in the presence of my hubby. It was great sex ever I had had as I had countless orgasms maybe because I knew he was not my hubby. The next guy I had sexed was a former boyfriend in college who I met accidentally. We had a quickie. The 3d guy was a friend we met at our retreat one summer. It was also my first time for a threesome experienced (MFM). Now my hubby allowed me to have a date with a guy I like as long as I will tell him all complete details of our love making.

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Queen_B on July 27th, 2009

    Queen_B

    I'm very happily married, but am in an open marriage. Me and my husband are very happy with the choice we've made, and that's for me to be allowed to engage in sexual relations with multiple sex partners. It turns me and my husband on. My husband doesn't exactly care for sleeping with other woman, but I'm trying to get him to do so because it turns ME on.

    The question is SHOULD anyone practice this, and the answer is it's up to the people or married couple, and what THEIR boundaries are as a couple sexually.

    • Like
    • Report

    1 comment | Post one | Permalink

  • by Feller on November 22nd, 2007

    Feller

    With rosy Palm and her five sisters? OK
    with other people? no

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by PillowPants on July 4th, 2007

    PillowPants

    I have heard that multiple partners can lead to cervical cancer. Of course, I forget exactly how these things are linked-sorry about that.
    Overall, it's always a bit of a health risk.

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Icebox April on April 1st, 2007

    Icebox April

    ...multiple partners as in at ONCE? or as in more than one person in LIFE?

    If you're talking about threesomes and whatnot, if you're safe, I don't see why not. It's a private matter what people want in the bedroom, and if it satisfies them, then I thinks it's fine as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. In a bad way. haha. I also think it could realllllly mess up a relationship if you're trying a threesome or whatever with a partner you intend to remain with. I just seems like it could become very complicated and jealousy and infidelity could arise from it.

    If you mean multiple partners in life, then I think that a lot of people are fine with having just one. I am not. Haha. I think that people that only have one partner ever are missing out. It's an amazing thing and I think people should share it with whomever they want and not let the idea of just "one for life" get in their way.

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Patti jo on April 1st, 2007

    Patti jo

    I would say you better be really careful and I would also say not a real good idea

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by nevets - badgicide on March 17th, 2007

    nevets - badgicide

    I believe that it is less healthy for a relationship if you have sex with multiple partners, but so long as you do it with consent then I hold no objections to anyone doing it.

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by   on March 17th, 2007

     

    No.

    • Like
    • Report

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Anonymous on July 27th, 2009

    Anonymous

    yeah, unless you have stds.

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by PeterODB on February 11th, 2008

    PeterODB

    Try it at least once before deciding if its right or wrong. I enjoy group sex with male and the odd female so give it a go.

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by plane guy on April 1st, 2007

    plane guy

    yes you should have sex with multiple partners and if you do ill come and you can have sex with me over and over and over again

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by A on April 12th, 2011

    A

    In the long run, I think it is a very, very bad idea.

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by voyeurist_wife on February 9th, 2010

    voyeurist_wife

    Share your answer...

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Anonymous on April 1st, 2007

    Anonymous

    If you are single, go for it. If you are comfortable with the arrangement, everybody's clean and protected and legal, then fine do it. I think before you do it though, you have to look at your reasons for wanting group sex - is it because you're curious and horny? or is it because you're feeling unattractive or have low self esteem? Maybe you feel like you can't connect to other people except through sex etc. If you have looked hard at why you're doing it and you still feel comfortable with doing it, then do it. It's your life. Make sure there is a Safe Word though, so everybody knows when to stop and will stop.

    If you are already in a relationship, bringing another person or persons into the arrangement may ruin your relationship - I'm talking about either or both of you becoming jealous, getting angry at one another for 'enjoying' it too much or favouring someone who isn't your partner, and feeling left out. This can lead to mistrust, paranoia and on the other side of the scale, affairs.

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Nice on July 3rd, 2007

    Nice

    No, I'm an educated and religious person.

    1 comment | Post one | Permalink

  • by virgie51767 on January 28th, 2010

    virgie51767

    Yes

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by iwnit on November 23rd, 2007

    iwnit

    I would not recommend it mostly because sex is usually mixed with some participation ot the feelings and it is quite complicated to manage this.

    But if you feel like doing it, give it a try.

    Warning: it could eventually threaten an existing relationship.

    And of course, it should be safe sex.
    (Check the medical issues)

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by Joel Gilleland on November 22nd, 2007

    Joel Gilleland

    If you mean at the same time, then i would say no.. its an organizational nightmare (or can be). However if you mean over your lifetime the answer is more complex. More partners increases risk of STD's and emotional turmoil. On the other hand less partners opens you to less experiences and you may not know what you're missing out on.

    It's a personal choice. Having said that it must suck to be locked into a relationship with someone who can't press your buttons, even if you aren't truely aware of the lack.

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

  • by anonymous on August 15th, 2008

    anonymous

    '

    No comments. Post one | Permalink

Want to attach an image to your answer? Click here.

Did this answer your question? If not, then ask a new question or create a poll.

More Questions. Additional questions in this category.

You're reading Should you have sex with multiple partners?

Follow us on Facebook!

Related Ads

Related Questions

Professionally Researched

ANSWERBAG BUZZ

St patty jokes
Mywifeenjoysmultiplepartners
Having multiple partners is not good
How many times can a woman have sex with multiple partners
Sex with multiple partners is great

Answerbag

a Demand Media company