Do you think it's good to make a guy wait 90 days before you get intimate with him?
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ANSWERS: 20
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IMO,it can't hurt to wait, especially if you want a serious relationship. Granted, there are married couples who slept together on their first date, but I think a short waiting period is a good way to test the other person's intentions. A guy who's interested in a long term relationship should be patient enough to wait a few weeks.
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Absolutely! One, if a guy's not willing to wait, he's trash anyway. Two, it makes you evaluate him in that time period. You may find that 90 days in, he's not worth you.
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I don't think there should be a specific limit....just do what feels right
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Sure, just don't let him know you're gonna make him wait 90 days! I think it's the best way of finding out if you're compatible with a guy, you'll also quickly find out if he's just with you for sex and it'll make it all the more special when you reach that time.
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I suppose it depends on what you want. I'm sure some guys would wait around 90 days for intimacy.
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If thats what makes you feel comfortable, of course... I have waited as short as 2 weeks, and as long as 3 years, so it depends on the relationship.
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It's ok...I can wait for 90 days or longer. +5
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Of course not...unless you want him to leave. And if he stays, he's going to completely massacre your vagina and you'll become a sex slave to him to make up for all the time he waited lol.
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Just do what you feel is right, if you want to awit then wait, if not then don't. From my experience the best times in your life will always be spontaneous. "Good things happen every now and then, great things happen all at once."
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You meant 90 minutes, right?
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Wow think 90 days is a long time, dont get me wrong all up for making the guys wait but thats a long ass time maybe try like ehhh 3 or 4 weeks-ish
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I think it's ok if you really feel it's important to you. But honestly I think you could go by how many dates you go on instead of days. I would think you could weed out the bad ones within 4 to 8 dates.
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There is definately a case for holding off for a while to develop the emoitonal intimacy first. However the decision to make love or not to should be made mutually, respectfully and lovingly. The wording of the question suggests "holding the power" so to speak which isnt the spirit of loving relationships.
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The older I get, the longer the wait and the desire for a serious relationship. I'm also into testing for stds, and anything thing else, to include HPV. One MD told me how it was possible, not fun for the guy. But none of these tests are fun for the woman. I've never regretted NOT sleeping with someone. +5
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90 days is great is a great start... In my experience, by 90 days I know them well enough to know if I want to be friends, pursue more or run the opposite direction.
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I waited 90 days to get intimate with myself. Couldn't hold out that long with the old man;)
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it's normal for boys and girls to take time before they intimate ,sometime it take longer .in my case it took eight months.
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Do I still have to go out with you or can I just mark it on my calendar and show up when it's time?
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the only man I made wait 90 days was the man I ended up marrying. I didn't choose 90 days it just turned out that it took 3 months until I was sure. At this age, I don't think I could wait 90 days! But I sure could wait long enough until I felt secure in the man's love and committment however long that takes.
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That's called manipulation. It's a calculated-bitch thing to do. . If You feel You're genuinely not ready, You don't do it. And He should wait, if it doesn't take eternity. . Every guy who has some balls and self-respect would break up with You immediately if You played Him like that. . But if You want to dominate in Your relationship and You're looking for a submissive wuss pushover, that's the best way to audition for this type of guy.
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