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Getting engaged doesn't mean you have to get married right away. Engagements can last years. If you want to marry him some day in the future, say yes, you will marry him, but you want to wait to finish college.
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You say you're already talking about marriage, but it sounds like he's doing more of the talking. Why not tell him clearly how you feel BEFORE he asks? That way he won't feel rejected - and won't have to return the ring.
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I agree, about being able to wait it out. I'm in a similar situation and we both agreed that we'd go to college first, or at least be in college before we made the commitment all the way. When/if he asks you, just inform him of how you feel about it. If he's worth marrying in the first place, he'll be willing to wait for you... if he refuses to wait then it's not worth it in the first place.
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Tell him ahead of time that you don't want to get married just yet. Tell him you want to wait till your out of collage. It will help him out a lot.
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Let him know how you feel before the MOMENT arrives , that way it stops him feeling upset and rejected and you can carry on happily. Any sensible man would understand the situation
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The only moment that is going to be ruined is if you rush into something you are not sure about. If you feel you are not ready then..by god tell him your not ready yet.
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Stay at my place until the wedding day?
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tell him before the moment comes along. when you talk about mariage talk about how you would like to do it after collage
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I am in exactly your situation, but I have told my boyfriend that I want to wait until I get out of college before we get married, and he understands that. You should just tell him exactly how you feel before that time comes, so that he knows exactly where you guys stand as far as marriage is concerned.
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im in that boat well not any more. but my Fiancé and i got engaged but wont get married till im done w/ school and he is back from iraq.
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I always wish that people would wait before they get married. I think it's smart to get your affairs in order like an education, finances and living on your own for awhile. Engagement was mentioned but will you be getting engaged for the right reasons? Will you be getting engaged to spare his feelings? I think you are being really smart by going to college. I think the most important thing is telling him how you feel and preferably before he asks you to marry him. Good luck
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Finish college, but if you love him, be engaged and enjoy your time together...
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Tell him, "I love you, but I want to wait until I am out of college." It's pretty straightforward. The best way to be with the person you plan to marry.
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