The ones who think it's acceptable. Hey, sometimes we all flip out a little and need someone to reign us in. When we know we're fucking up, and think that's ok because the rules don't apply to us, that's much worse.

The ones who don't realize how they're acting,for sure.When you think that you deserve something that isn't promised,then you really have messed up.The world doesn't owe you a thing. +5

The latter. My sister is trying very hard not to become a bridezilla. Unfortunately, she's trying so hard to keep the peace (not standing up for herself) that she's gotten to the point of running away every time the wedding is mentioned. We have a bridesmaid (zilla?) who starts in on her about what isn't done, what she isn't doing, etc. every time she sees either of us. She actually brings up the countdown at every opportunity (# weeks left). My sister started out nervous about the wedding and now she's neurotic. I finally blew up on her after she went off about how I was dropping the ball on the bridal shower/bachelorette parties. She seems to have forgotten that the previous time we had talked she had asked my ideas and then found them lacking. She thought it better to schedule the shower 4 days before the wedding to accommodate an out of town bridesmaid we weren't sure was even coming until a little over a month ago instead of scheduling it a few weeks in advance as the experts suggest. Then we'd have to schedule the bachelorette party 2-3 weeks in advance of the wedding. Oy! The funny part is that she know she's pushy and told me that I needed to tell her to back off if she got too crazy, but now she's mad at me. I planned my entire wedding in a month. I think I can handle a shower. Sorry. Can you guess that weddings are a sensitive subject at the moment?

Anyone who's aware that they're acting out-of-order is more reprehensible..... but they all deserve a good slap! (please be aware I’m not actually advocating violence against women :)