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...on one hand I don't wanna disrespect them, but on the other, we are both adults, and I have no personal moral objection.
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If you were still a minor, I'd tell you to respect their wishes, but you are an adult. They need to get real. You have been dating him for five years, and being together for that long implies a certain level of physical involvement. Their son is grown up, and they need to recognize that. They have already had their chance to be young, live their lives, and make their own decisions about their relationship. So now it's your turn to do those things. Be polite to them, but you do not have to let them tell you what to do.
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This is a different situation than a new relationship, or one where two kids have to sneak around to have sex. This is a bonafied relationship. If they have done this much for you, then it's time you stepped up to the plate, Lucy. They quite obviously care a lot about you. You don't bite the hands that feed you, dear. Respect thier wishes. It has nothing to do with you and their son being adults. This is about respecting them and all they've done to support you. Set a date for marriage. It doesn't have to be in 30 days, but 5 years is plenty of time to know each other. Maybe college is in the way, or maybe it's something else. But you guys need to be done with pussyfooting around. Do it right :) +5
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Tough call here. I have a question....you have been together 5 years. does this mean just together in a relationship or has sex entered the picture? your question was not very clear on this point. His parents do not believe you should sleep at his apartment? First, what do your parents think? You are both adults and adults can do whatever adults do. Is it their respect that you are honoring? i am confused at this point also. Have you two been living together for 5 years? if so, why now is this a problem?
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