Would you be offended if your bf/gf told you they didnt NEED you but like to be with you?
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No I would be thankful...anyone that says they need me, scares me.
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Nope, because who honestly NEEDS a partner?
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I agree with buttkisses. Someone who needs you is going to end up going to be a exhausting relationship. :-)
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no just shows they have self confidence in who they are as a person...meanin no one can make them or break them... :)
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Good Job! It also shows that you are not clingy! Dont take it personal. My girl certainly doesnt need me but shes nuts about me!
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No I think that's wonderful. They have chosen to be with you because you are good company not because they need something from you. There are far too many people around who use others.
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Nope. I'd be very happy. I don't want to be -needed-. I want to loved and wanted, but not needed. That leads to issues.
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No, Its not really a good thing to be with someone who needs you. Both people need to be able to handle life and everything on their own before they can ever be in a stable relationship. Otherwise you will have one person leaning too heavily on the other for support. If that person cant be strong enough for the two of them their relationship will collapse.
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My initial reaction would be that I'd like to hear more than "I like being with you..." that's seems like something I'd hear in junior high. I don't believe that I'm clingy but I'd like to think that I just WANT my fiance but I don't know...when my significant other was deployed it really felt like need:)
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I have been told that before, and although I understand what everyone else has said about the importance of an independent partner, I just wanted to sigh and say, "Really?" Saying you like or want to be with someone is a tepid statment of affection. The word "want" is usually tied to someone's desires of the moment. What if they want me one minute and not the next? I would feel better if someone said, "I don't need you, but you're a very important part of my life and I'd miss you if you were no longer in it."
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Everyone on this Earth has needs. To be Loved and cared for.........and also to Love and care for others. In my relationship, my S/O's strength's are in my weak areas and my strength's are in his. We have good balance like that in many things. We complete eachother, so do we need each other? It's not need.......there is a greater depth. Not sure what the term would be. More like we just are. Firtle ground for growth and lots of good things for us.
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