ANSWERS: 12
  • I think to expect one person to fulfill every need or want is setting yourselves up to fail. Thats why we have friends, to do those things with that our partners do not like.
  • no. you can never make anyone completely completely happy... EVER no matter what the circumstances no matter how perfect you are. they have to make themselves happy, but you can help them in that endeavor. by being happy yourself and being a pleasure to live with you make things easier on them and if they are of the mindset to be happy they will be... but some people expect you to MAKE them happy, and they will never be satisfied. I know this kind of person all too well, I spent 6 and a half years married to one.
  • no. the reason you want to have the other person happy, is because they enjoy their life with you, and they sense you, them, not something that is "made". Certainly there are gestures of love, or appreciation, (flowers, poems, what not)that can bring a smile or bring joy, but the sense of "happiness" comes from within,and from whom you choose to spend your time with..ya' know?
  • i think it's completely possible. you just have to truly be in love. the sad thing is, not many people these days know what that is.
  • I don't think anyone else can satisfy every need but that's not what marriage is about anyways. If we stop thinking the grass is greener elsewhere and realize what we have is good (if it's good...no abuse) we can be happy. Did I answer your question?
  • No not everything that makes you happy forever. You won't find that in a marriage at all at least not *everything*! Marriage is all about compromise. IMO there will be something at sometime that they cannot give you and you then have to provide it for yourself or make do without.
  • The Elders say, man & woman as they were one in the beginning shall be one again to complete each other. We were also taught that at birth you are part of an oneness that divides into boy & girl born simultaneously in 2 different places. The meaning with this is that the 2 are soul mates & what they share is called The Divine Love. According to my people The Balance of the Universe is 1 billion 8 million so we are 4.2 billion+ over populated. See, there was a system which was destroyed along with my heritage of Atlantean & Lemurian ways. We're so lost in this crap we let the Elite lead us into. I'm sorry but u seemed to want to origin of the truth of the matter & that is it! Osara
  • If you NEED someone to be completely happy the answer is no.
  • Honestly, I'm a little unsure about it. I think that it is possible for it to happen. But it depends on the person too. Meaning some people expect more out of others. If thats the case then its almost impossible for any one to make them happy. Personally its an unattainable fanasty, of which I partake in imagining often. If only.
  • It is a fantasy. Eventhough a nice thought. The hope that it will become the fantasy keeps me going. But when I realize that marrage is not perfect being single again sounds pretty good.
  • "No" to the first part. "Yes" to the second part. Thank goodness that there's reward in making the EFFORT to be "that someone" for him/her.
  • Lets Get Married And Find Out :) But Im a Guy Bdw.. haha.

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